I'm really sorry I don't have any advice to give. Seems like you got a lot of suggestions here, though. So I'll just send a

and

that you can make whatever decision is right for you.
Oh! Am I too late? Um, then I'd just like to say I'm sure you did what was best for you. Don't let all the naysayers here get to you. Just remember to put on your flame retardent suit the next time you want to talk about the choices you've made.
ETA: can I come over too? I'll bring diet dr.pepper and some
pirate's booty!