Hi Everyone!!
After 20+ years in our home we have decided to do a complete renovation of our kitchen. FYI we now have the '80's pickled oak and I'm afraid of falling into the same trap of looking dated in the future. Full disclosure first I hate making decisions and always second guess myself and DH can make decisions without any regrets.
Dh and I have come up with a floor plan with a kitchen designer with a dash of industrial look, so that is basically set. However, I think both of us are drawn to a transitional look, but all of a sudden I'm getting cold feet picking out the cabinets fearing I'll make a mistake. I don't want to look it to look like everyone else's kitchen but I want a timeless look this time. Now every time I look at a photo I like both stained cabinets as well as white painted. Also, we are not compulsively clean nuts so white scares me. We have a very large kitchen open to a great room with brazilian cherry flooring, so I'm leaning towards a tile/slate look flooring (perhaps in a pinwheel design?) and I love the look of soapstone - but tonight the designer was not a fan. Now I'm just dazed and confused and afraid to pull the trigger and make a commitment.
Finally, is there any must haves or things on your wish list to have appliance or 'cabinet' enhancements - besides recycling bins, e.g. warming tray, etc. Double ovens in the wall or a range with ovens underneath. As everyone knows here on this board this is quite an investment, so I'm asking everyone's help with ideas and emotional support
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Thanks in advance for everyone's help!!
After 20+ years in our home we have decided to do a complete renovation of our kitchen. FYI we now have the '80's pickled oak and I'm afraid of falling into the same trap of looking dated in the future. Full disclosure first I hate making decisions and always second guess myself and DH can make decisions without any regrets.

Finally, is there any must haves or things on your wish list to have appliance or 'cabinet' enhancements - besides recycling bins, e.g. warming tray, etc. Double ovens in the wall or a range with ovens underneath. As everyone knows here on this board this is quite an investment, so I'm asking everyone's help with ideas and emotional support

Thanks in advance for everyone's help!!