Can I ask, and I'm not being sarcastic or anything, but...why not white? When we remodeled our home a couple of years ago we were going through the same debate--black or stainless steel? So many pros and cons for both, mostly cons--black would be too dark, both would show fingerprints (I already knew that because we had a black dishwasher & microwave before the remodel). Finally I was talking to an interior designer and she asked me, "Why not white?" and I said, "I don't know, I didn't even think about it as an option." Well, we went with white appliances, beige tile countertops, light hardwood floors and a maple cabinet and it looks awesome. I love it because it doesn't look like, "Ohhhh, a remodel done in early 2000's", you know...it's not dated and I felt the black or stainless would have dated the look.
I know, another option for you to think about but I just wanted to throw it out there for you to consider.