Disney1fan2002
<font color=red>Like OMG the TF is SOO psyched to
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Hi Mikesmom,
I would say play it by ear. You say the trip is during week 7? So that means your DH will have been going to therapy for 6 weeks rior, correct? he should by that time have a good idea of what his therapy is, have him talk to his therapist about giving him some exercises he can do on his own for the week.
If the docs are predicting he could be all set by week 6, then think positive. I know when he first comes out of surgery, he is going to be telling you to cancel the trip because there is no way he will feel better by then, but 6 week post-op is a huge recovery time and in all probability, he may be slowed down a bit, but he will prbably be able to take over his own therapy for a week, so you can enjoy you trip!
If you get closer to the date of the trip, and DH is is no way ready to go anywhere, then your friends should completely understand if you have to cancel. If they put up a stink, then offer them the ressie, but RENT it to them. But, I am sure you won't have this problem, because you will be going and having a great time!
I would say play it by ear. You say the trip is during week 7? So that means your DH will have been going to therapy for 6 weeks rior, correct? he should by that time have a good idea of what his therapy is, have him talk to his therapist about giving him some exercises he can do on his own for the week.
If the docs are predicting he could be all set by week 6, then think positive. I know when he first comes out of surgery, he is going to be telling you to cancel the trip because there is no way he will feel better by then, but 6 week post-op is a huge recovery time and in all probability, he may be slowed down a bit, but he will prbably be able to take over his own therapy for a week, so you can enjoy you trip!
If you get closer to the date of the trip, and DH is is no way ready to go anywhere, then your friends should completely understand if you have to cancel. If they put up a stink, then offer them the ressie, but RENT it to them. But, I am sure you won't have this problem, because you will be going and having a great time!