I planned a surprise trip this past October to celebrate my DD Sweet 16th Birthday. It was so cool and something she will never, ever forget.
The birthday buttons alone were enough to make her smile endlessly. So many people stopped her, sang to her, etc. She sometimes did not know who to thank. She would just hear "Happy Birthday." She was allowed to be the first to board the boat at WL by the captain because it was her "special day" and they sang to her as she boarded. Early one morning on the way to MK (she's not a morning person and half asleep), the passengers out of know where started singing to her.
Tell a CM at the park it's your DD's birthday. At a store in Frontierland they asked if Goofy wished her HB. They picked up the phone and dialed a number and handed the phone to her. She was stunned. She actually blushed. I think it's something "I will" remember for years to come.
I used Pixie Gifts (Beth) and ordered a bunch of things for her. They will customize a basket, cake, balloons, etc. for her to be in her room upon check in. I ordered a Tinkerbell cake (her fav), some t-shirts, night shirts, candies, and all sorts of goodies. I included Disney dollars so she could pick out a few special things on her own. She was speechless when she saw everything.
I agree on the special dinner. We were there for
MNSSHP so I did PS at LTT in MK and she was floored when they called her by name. She had no idea I told them when I called it was her BD. They had a special table for us with streamers, confetti, etc. It was great. The characters knew by the streamers it was a special ocassion and they really spent a lot of time with her. You can even order cakes at most restaurants. The Plaza Rest. gives the BD guest a cupcake with a single candle and sing! LTT--the whole gang of CM's came out and sang at the end of our meal. It was priceless.
I would recommend ordering her a Cinderella's slipper dessert from the GF. It has to be eaten at GF (can't be shipped to another resort). I just made PS at GF Cafe and that's all we had was two slippers. You do have to order them in advance. Well worth it. Just another way to "feel special."
I honestly cannot think of a better way to celebrate her 16th Birthday. Truly WDW made it so very special and created lifelong memories for both of us.
Have fun planning!
Michele