My biggest challenges in planning a DL trip are transportation from the airport, which airport to fly into, if I should try to do the Fantasmic dessert package, if I want to do a tour or not.
With only 3 weeks to go I bet you have just about solved all those dilemas!
If all you want to see is
Disneyland then you will not even need a car assuming you picked a hotel within walking distance. However, if you plan to visit anything else in the area you will want to rent a car which are readily available at the airports and will solve your problem of how to get to the hotel from the airport.
We have found that the easiest way to get from the airport to the hotel since we don't rent a car is to just grab a curbside cab. Shuttles are probably cheaper but then you have to coordinate where to meet them which in our case was more hassle than it was worth. Of course, our favorite transportation experience was the one time we took friends and went all out with the limo. That was way cool and totally worth it to have done it once. If you are staying onsite then I guess all that is just totally useless cause I guess you can just use their free transportation. Never stayed onsite so I can't offer any input there.
Fantasmic dessert package.... depends on who you ask. Personally, we enjoyed it. However, it is expensive so we don't do it every trip. On our trips I love to do a few things that are a little something special and this definetly fits the bill. IMHO, love having seats ahead of time and not having to camp out for hours. Dessert just adds to the whole experience. If you time it just right you can stay in your seats after the show for a nice view of the fireworks. Very pretty over the Rivers of America.
If you love tours they do some really nice ones at DL. We have done the Walk in Walt's Footsteps, Discover the Magic and the Holiday tour. Would love to do the VIP but that one is going to have to wait until after I win the lotto or something. If you are a Disney nut like I am then I would highly recommend them if you have plenty of time in your schedule.
For us to have 5 days at DL and CA, I am not sure Ridemax is that critical, especially since we thoroughly enjoy just being in the Parks, listening to the music and soaking up the atmosphere, so a little bit of a wait in a line is not an issue for us.
Totally depends on what style you enjoy touring the parks. I am find it interesting that some people's idea of a great vacation can include a down to the minute itinerary. No commandos in my group! We sound more like you. Taking our time and enjoying all the little things. Even a wait in line can turn into fun as long as you are in the park! So, yeah, I agree. Ridemax planning in not one of those things you just have to have.
It is good to take note of the MM days, holidays or special events going on that might affect a days attendance. In general typically Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday will be the least crowded in DL. Saturday is a good day to spend at CA to avoid the DL crowd. Make dining reservations on the busy days to avoid long waits. Busy days are also an excellent choice for booking that Fantasmic package or a tour so you have something fun to do while everyone else is just hanging around, waiting in lines. If you are not planning to stay for fireworks plan to exit the park a little early or wait until after the show to avoid getting stuck in the rush of people leaving. Just a few strategic plans and you will be good to go!
We took our first trip to WDW in December and I gotta say that it
was a nearly overwhelming task to plan. Lordy! There is so much information if you are a planner like I tend to be. Somehow I muddled through and managed to pull together everything we needed. Everthing went according to plan.... except the weather. I agree with you
RweTHEREyet that Tourguidemike.com is an excellent resource. I also agree with
DisneyMomma81.
DLR is much easier to plan and will always be #1 to me.
This year we are heading back to Disneyland and I am so happy not have to do all that planning. I feel like I am already on vacation.... well, almost. I am going to be so happy to be back in my favorite park!