My 2 year old foster daughter...

lizardqueen

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could easily pass for a 4 year old. We are planning on taking her to WDW in April, a month before she turns 3. Now, how do I "prove" to the people at the gate that she is only 2. Beings she is a foster child, I do not have access to a birth certificate or anything. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

Michelle
 
I've never known there to be CM police at the gates, so wouldn't be overly worried. However, do you have a health card or something that lists her date of birth? If so, I'd bring that along.
 
Michelle,
I expect the CM's will take anything that looks official enough. Maybe a letter from the social worker or agency that placed the child with you. I've personally never seen them ask anyone for a birth certificate and as they don't have pictures it wouldn't be that hard to switch if someone really wanted to test the system anyway.

I think it is wonderful that you have opened up your home and your lives to take in a foster child and WDW too. Your DD2 has gotten luckier. :grouphug:

Have a great trip.
 
The best defense the CMs have is to directly ask the child....the child never lies about their age. A 3 yr old is always happy to tell you they are 3!
 

CastMemberDWA said:
The best defense the CMs have is to directly ask the child....the child never lies about their age. A 3 yr old is always happy to tell you they are 3!

My child lies about his age all the time! He's 2 and most frequently says that he is 3. Usually it happens in places where he eats free for being 2 and under.
 
Hey! Another foster parent here! We took DD to WDW before our adoption went through. We asked our social worker for a letter saying that we were permitted to taker her, just in case we ran into any problems. The social worker included DD's name, birthdate, etc. and the social worker's name and # too. Now we're getting ready for Hawaii and are excited to get DD a passport with her new last name!

It's nice to see other foster parents here! Have a great trip!
 
Hi

I am a child protection worker in Canada. Hats off to you foster parents. I am always so impressed with the love and caring that you all offer our foster children. I wish more people would open their homes and hearts to those children that need it most.

Do you keep a life book for the foster kids - if yes, going to Disney - what a great memory for that child when he she either returns to the natural family, is adopted, lives with kin or stays in care.

Usually the workers have to write a travel letter giving permission to have the child travel either out of province/state etc. In Canada the foster parent is not the legal guardian, but rather is the caregiver. The Children's Aid Society is the "acting parent" in most cases and therefore a letter is needed - it should contain the D.O.B.

Best of luck to you and have a fabulous time.

Tink&Cinderella
 
That is so awesome that some here have taken in foster kids. I hope to someday do that myself. You guys rock!
 
holden said:
... We asked our social worker for a letter saying that we were permitted to taker her, just in case we ran into any problems.

Great suggestion - even for those taking neices/nephews, neighbors, friends, etc. Accidents happen & heaven forbid a child needs medical attention & the adult with them is not the one legally able to authorize treatment.

Anyway - maybe a note from her pediatrician on a prescription slip?

::MinnieMo
 
Most letters that give MPOA have to be noterized (spelling is wrong) for a letter to be valid for use at a hospital ER at least the one that I used to work at.
 
kikakeko said:
Most letters that give MPOA have to be noterized (spelling is wrong) for a letter to be valid for use at a hospital ER at least the one that I used to work at.


::yes:: ::yes:: ::yes::
Years ago my mother was a Girl Scout leader in south Florida. Permission slips for trips and whatnot were never required by the local council to be notarized. But after one incident, mom always required the girls in her troops to get them notarized before turning them in.

The troop (high school age girls) were at a council roller skating event. One of mom's girls fell and broke her leg. The ambulance came, took the girl and mom to the hospital (yes, there were other chaperones there to look after the rest of the troop). When they got to the hospital, mom gave the ER people the signed permission slip giving her permission to seek treatment for the girl. Not good enough because it wasn't notarized. The parents/guardian had to be present. Under normal circimstances that would not have been a problem, because they were still local. But wouldn't you know it, that was the weekend the parents decided to take their boat out for a little mini vacation. No grandparents locally either. They were finally able to get in touch with her 18 year old sister and accepted her permission, as a temporary guardian since mom and dad left her in charge for the weekend, and treated the girl. In the mean time, they wouldn't even give her pain meds, and wouldn't let mom give her any either (she was able to slip her some tylonol when they weren't looking-i know, bad mom).

Lesson learned. Fast forward 12 years. Mom now a leader in northeast Ohio. Planned a trip for her, again, high school aged girls, driving from Ohio to Georgia, over to Tennessee and back. This time required notaries on everything. Well, there was a new girl in the troop whose parents couldn't understand why they had to have stuff notarized when the council didn't require it. Mom told them to either get it notarized, or their daughter couldn't go. And what happened, yep, you guessed it, the slip got notarized the girl went, and, while jumping into a swimming pool landed wierd, had to be rushed to the hospital for a broken ankle. The first thing the ER asked for when they found out parents were not there was a notarized letter giving permission for treatment! The parents never questioned anything mom said again... :cool1:

Lesson learned. Fast forward another 10 years to present time. Mom is now gone (5 years now). DH and I are planning a 2007 trip to The World ( :Pinkbounc :Pinkbounc ) for our DS and DH's two sisters (all will be 4, 11 and 13 at time of trip). My FIL and his wife will not be on the trip. You can bet the first thing I get from them is a notarized letter not only giving us permission to remove them from the state, but also for any medical decisions/treatment that may be needed while we are gone!!!

::yes:: ::yes:: ::yes::
 
Just went to Disney w/DD9, she looks so much older then her age especially since she just got her braces..The only park that questioned her age was AK. The CM asked her age and she proudly stated 9. No further questions..
When she was 2 and we took her to the world they questioned her aged, the CM asked her age and she said 6 (her favorite cousin was w/her and she wanted to be just like her) . I asked the CM does she look 6..They asked her Bday and she gave the CM a puzzled look, She then proceeded to say "How do I know I'm really 2, but don't tell Mickey." :rotfl2:

You have a wonderful trip w/ your family, and don't worry about what the cm's think. You know your telling the truth so who cares what they think..
 












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