I would suggest a character meal like Chef Mickey's or Crystal Palace. Both are all you can eat buffets with lots of kid friendly options. The characters come right to your table for pictures and autographs (no standing in long lines in the parks). Chef Mickey's features Mickey,Minnie, Chip , Dale, Pluto , Goofy and sometimes Donald. Crystal Palace features Winnie the Pooh, Piglet, Eyeore and Tigger. If you'd like to see a dinner show, I would recommend Hoop De Doo Review. Fried chicken, ribs, all you can eat and drink (beer and wine included) and a real fun show that your kiddos will just love. Ohana's is another good choice. No characters here but they can learn to hula and do a coconut/broom race through the restaurant. Yummy all you can eat steak, pork , shrimp and turkey on skewers.