...i don't know why, but splash , just seem to fit you ~ horsey
girl....
fyi---i ~ meanin the old red bull [in my hey days
] got
an eye on you...strayers trying to sneak & munch in ..our "lushie"
greener, pasture..back over to the old brown and dirt patch.
.......sorry guys, i didn't checked my mistakes, & i was stopped
several times...{actually~ it was morning when it was started,
and ended right before going to work.....
, what's funny,
is all the "conclusions" ..i was trying to get at. sorry. * the thing
that drives me nuts, is losing my mind...like marbles rollin all over
the floor~oops you all are to young to ever seen a marble, huh?
...so without much other to moo abut, here's the followup...[ to
make some sense, maybe ssss, not ? ]....
* nurses eat their young...no other profession is more @ each other
than "it"...however, for all the info/knowledge gained in college...
none of it matter much, without the personality traits to apply "it", to
the clincal areas. then there are the numbers game...the demand
is so high, that socxiety adoted very lack standards ..to get the
numbers up....this cross over process..destroyed the "image" of
a highly skilled professionals [ the % of those that are funbctioning @
this level ]. * garabage nurses..are everywhere, and are worst than
usless..dangerous....no one cares in society..exzcept the individual,
who often are up against those that are lazy and taking advantage
of patients. accomplished nurses are not in charge ..in fact, we
are a very lonely group, up against a majority ~ so it is the other
group dominating..* and if you think they have any motivation to
improved things....just asked eeyore45 's baby story....."see" ????
the thing that happened with my wife...is common~ not uncommon.
lookie! at the damage they are doing.....oh, my...think how many
deadly mistakes are sweep under the rug. " don't think", it sad!
pssst, doctors are not too far behind this curb either.
finding a corrective measure? ......thru my career...i have ponder these
issues....society is the primary problem, in its structure~ it demands
numbers..to fill its gaps..over inviduals' needs.........now if i was in
charge...to "medicine" i would offered...would be professional education
in our basic school system..so society as a whole would "raise their
expectations for receiving "professional grade medical/nursing care."
& an improved reporting system for those committing neglect/
offenses against their clients....not just making , hospital resp., but
right at the person....doctor, lab, respiratory, rn, and so forth. * if
you make the individual resp., $ out of their pockets....maybe motivate
them out of being lazy...& then those diluting [dangerous]..right out
the doors. ..and another separte system....for the professional grade
nurses...& staff, that are actually "knows" what type of cae needed
be in control to set up their programs..instead being told by
admin./supervisors..[who don't know their heads from their feet].
*
me & my wife, were robbed....our ob dr. broke the law being outside
the hospital with her on a pit. drip, though we had prenatal care--
she was to go over 3 weeks...[placing mother & child in great
dangers- patrick had no "covering left, from the animotic fluid ~
had his skin wrinkled so bad..that his first layer was peeling off *as
soon as he was dleivered. ] the rn we had, was a nursery nurse, not
prepared to assumed normal labor/delivery duties. by the time, i realzed
this...we were in deep trouble.....& just because my wife pulled off
this miracles...do not excused their neglience! x this across the country-
maybe it begin to make sense why so many babies are autism?
* now...my point....i was trying to get at....wanta hear something
really amazing and full of miracles? .....
, one lil' verbal intervention
that i seen work over and over ? ......you informed a mother, her baby
in trouble, and she needs to do this or that , & you will never "see"
a person giving more than their all.
, it like an instinct of another
level, way above their normal capacity.
* why did that new grandmother came to my instructor? here
something sad...a student should never been in charge of a high risk-
off the charts , client. why?..cos the other nurses were "punishing her
[client]...for being pregnant @ 13y/o....and as you go on down the list,
know wonder, we as a society are needing new systems to address
our individual needs-emotional ~ medical.
....over the years, i have thought about how lil'attention patricks'
head mesurment was ignored..ahhhh, then it became self evident, they
chose to ignored..becuase its evidence of what they should never had
missed....much like the hospital "blaming' genetics on my brother-in-
law's baby...tey screwed up..& their baby paid a horrible price.
baby stuff...the experiences/knowledge i share..cam from very dedicated
and professional rn's..."you should have seen how they did their practice..
truly an art form , where they were masters. me? "i paid attentions and
follow their directions". any hoo....lil'blue, the phases of the moon effects
gravity..and tha does! effects the processes of labor [
].
..ok, your pass 36 weeks, which usually means all system @ go,
,
but then there is an oposing force..thumper? what are the chances, he
happy, where he is @? when i worked ob, right after birth, there so many
emotions for the mother, ..one being , missing the lil'belly warmer? not
to mentioned all the immediate changes of hormones....& other stuff.
...i
what the nurses i worked with...came up with...they used
the "sterilizer"...to heat up blankets...the women loved them. & there's
a reason why placing the baby on top of the mother's belly...what a
miraclous system it is....i don't think there is a more sweeter "look",
than when a mother eyes on her newborn baby. * even when they
been thru it! we took pics. of her holding patrick..wow, its hard to
believe all she had just went thru..but how beautiful she look at that
moment...patrick was already pulling down the blanket...yes, i took pics.
[while cursing the dr. and the rn]
"baby luke"...now that's a cute story belonging in the baby book?
c-girl,
, her family..must be her reality orientation,"stressing"
behaviors- that will produced positive outcomes..including feelings.
for meds to be effective* for maintaining chemical balance....must
be complaince...*even when she thinks thay are not necesary. the
priamry idea for meds...is to re-establish/accomplish chemical
interactions..*where she "is" in control & making decisons that are
in her best interests..including her- recognizing/treating her family,
* so they can keep on supporting her...like everyone else,
she is operating from the same feelings- we all have and share.
[happy, cold, warm, anger, depress, sad, so forth...] stressed
the goal is for her to be in control of her feelings so in reality,
she can tell who is for her. [just like the rest of us]. limit setting
is also the same...no one like being treated mean ,nasty , or
taking advantage of...without the meds, parnoia means resorting
to non-functioning, and frequently "projecting" delsuional feelings
over reality..thus making the people she cared about suffer--that's
you c-girl & your family.
noticed guys, similarities on some boards? even on disney cruises,
you will find all kind of persoanality disorders..some cos of having
$$$$ or fame are not even aware...will unless they run into some
one like myself...
. and because of my own experiences,
i really don't like mean/nasty people.....eps. those making themselves
feeling better about themselves by hurting others....i will redirct &
set a limit. however, there's a difference in those with chemical
inbalances...i don't think anyone chose to have health problems,
and they deserve support. its those chosing to be mean...will
get my attention. "bullies" types.
want to see some personality disorders..cruise baord & the incident
at the magic's lounge..darn..i can't thnk of its name, nabbyg.?
rude and nasty behaviors while crowding in front of others was the
topic. yep, they're everywhere, so our schools should be teaching
coping skills and psych.101. life would be better.
woowers, i am begining to sound like my ..mother/father put
together..boring to....
I am glad the boys are covered and nothing happened in the mean time. Good price indeed. You are really into the m&m's, or were you always? I recall you putting them on something earlier. 
And he is still there. He has cryed , whined , hated me for helping him because other parents don't check if it is done right to just let me get an "F". 
