OP here.
Ok first of all I really resent being called irresponsible because I declined a 2nd chicken pox vaccine for MY child.
I come at all of this from a science background. I have been to graduate school in a health care profession, I know how to read research studies, I know where to look for valid research studies .I do not shoot from the hip on these matters, I throughly read both sides of all the issues regarding vaccines, I look at science.
and I encourage all parents to do this as well.
as for the chickenpox vaccine, it does NOT give lifetime immunity. and that is my big issue with it. and honestly I would prefer my kids be exposed to chickenpox as a child not as an adult and certainly not as a pregnant adult female.
I dont' want them to have to go thru life having to continuously pump more vaccine into their bodies. that is my issue with the cp vaccine.
as for all the others, my kids have had all their shots, my ds will be getting boosters that usually come during the 4-6 yo range, I just like to do things later, and on my own schedule than on the CDC schedule.
he may get them closer to 6 yo or 7 yo,
I do take issue with having to get a second dose of MMR as well. if you read the research nearly 100 % develop immunity its like 98% so the second dose is a "just in case you are in the 2%" so my plan is to have a titre done first before giving another dose of MMR. and it is actually the measles component that is needed in a second dose for the just in case,
but anyway, thanks to all the posters who answered