Moms to Be Part 3

[Maggimus]

Thanks! I did see that about the diapers. WHOO HOO!

Okay here I am... 21wks vs 24wks... I think things are heading north a bit now!

 

[Piecey]

Today DH and FIL are finishing up painting Lily's room and my dad's coming over to put the new fan in the living room. I get to just stay out of the way!

Awesome about the shower-- I've seen the bears that do the womb sounds, but never heard of a sheep before?? Sounds super cute!!

You'll have to post pictures of their progress and yes PLEASE stay out of the way and just watch. I learned the hard way...

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I landed myself in labor and delivery last night...
DH keeps saying "I told you that you were doing too much this late in things"

We moved yesterday (we've gotta be out of our other house Thursday, they've got someone else moving in!) and I was motivated and overdid it majorly with the unpacking/moving/etc.

I started having pain and trouble breathing about 7:30 and it just kept getting worse. I'd sit down but when the pain lessened, I'd get back up and do something else.

About 10pm it got so bad the pain had spread to my gallbladder and so I took the pain medicine they gave me and it didn't help. I took another and it didn't help. It was still coming and going and I just knew it was my gallbladder because it was exactly the same as January.

DH ended up aking me to the ER about 12:30 .....

ER nurse kinda smirked at me when I told her I was 38weeks and ripped up the paperwork I filled out and sent me to L&D and asked if this was my first. I told them it was but that I knew the pain was my gallbladder. She smirked again and said "Sure, honey, but we've just got to have them check you." Fair enough, I think that's protocol, right?


Turns out I was having contractions all night and when they got stronger, the pressure from them was causing all the extra pressure on my gallbladder which was causing the gallbladder attack that the pain medication couldn't get rid of .... she said that might be why I didn't notice the pain from the contractions, because the gallbladder pain was stronger...
This makes me SUPER excited for when the fullblown contractions come and they can't give me crap for my gallbladder!!!!!!!!!

They kept me for 3.5 hours and timed the contractions, they went from 15 minutes to 12 minutes apart and weren't doing much of anything down yonder (in 3.5 hours I went from a fingertip dialated to 1.5 and still at 70%) so they gave me the option to stay and maybe get the drugs to try to soften things up or go home and see what happened. I came home-- I didn't have a bag or a carseat!

So we'll see whether or not Lucas stays put.
Today's to do list? Car seat and a hospital bag...

 

[MelessaG]

Today's to do list? Car seat and a hospital bag...

It sure sounds like that's the ONLY thing that should be on your to-do list! Take it easy and keep us posted! (I hope your gallbladder decides to behave when you DO go into labor. And don't you love it when those admitting people at the hospital think that they know more than you. )

 

[Piecey]

Piecey - wow, that's an awesome keepsake you have! Our doctors office doesn't do video or allow you to tape, so we just have to settle for our memories. I was able to make out most of the details, especially in the very beginning with his little face.

My DR has the hospital do them, they're not done in her office. I've gotten to know the ultrasound tech pretty well now (she's pregnant, due October 10th with a girl she'll name Abigail- all things I've learned through the course of my 5 ultrasounds! )
She's done my baby Lucas US's and my gallbladder US's, etc.. so I felt comfortable asking her and she said I couldn't tape while the measurements were on the screen but she gave me those few minutes towards the end! I'm very grateful, I agree-- awesome keepsake!

Thanks! I did see that about the diapers. WHOO HOO!

Okay here I am... 21wks vs 24wks... I think things are heading north a bit now!

I totally see progress! Bet that is getting you even more excited, huh??

 

[Piecey]

It sure sounds like that's the ONLY thing that should be on your to-do list! Take it easy and keep us posted! (I hope your gallbladder decides to behave when you DO go into labor. And don't you love it when those admitting people at the hospital think that they know more than you. )

Yeah... DH yelled at me when I came downstairs and started digging through the fridge. I've got to make another one of those pies! I told him I think I'm okay to do that but he's watching me...

Yeah, I do! Part of me wanted to pit-stop back by the ER and go "Hey, I WAS having a gallbladder attack like I told you-- it's just that it was caused by some pesky contractions!" so I wasn't totally wrong...

We're going to my parents for a cookout later so I'm sure when DH tells them I'll be banned from ANYTHING.

 

[december]

Piecey, sounds like you better be getting ready! Will the epi not dull the gallbladder pain?

 

[mmkk]

Patsy-I saw your status on FB and figured you probably had popped over here to explain so I had to come see what happened last night. Girl, you better take it easy! Especially with your gallbladder giving you fits like that.

My friends gave me a surprise shower on Saturday! It was so nice of them and great to see all my friends there. And I got lots of nice things. My neighbor gave me the Mayan Wrap I wanted and of course I got lots of diapers/wipes and cute baby outfits. Madeline got three presents of her own and all her little friends were there so she thought the party was for her! There were 11 little girls there altogether so I can see where she could be confused by that! LOL

I love all the 3-D pics! I had one done (the one I mentioned was a special for $59.) this past Wed. But its for DH's father's day so I hate to post the pics here first. Although I think I will have to give it to him before Father's Day since I think this little one is going to come a little early. When I give it to him, I will post the pics on here. They did a CD with still shots and also did a DVD set to music. He was head down and facing my spine at first but we finally got him to turn enough to where we could get some good shots of his face.

We went to IKEA yesterday. They just opened one in Tampa. I thought I might go into labor there from so much walking but luckily I didn't. I took it easy though. I'm surprised we made it out of there with only spending about $60. We will definitely be going back soon to furnish some of the house with IKEA stuff! And their kids stuff is so adorable!

I can't believe either how soon it will be before several of you have your babies! I can't wait to see all the new baby pics!

 

[MelessaG]

Piecey, sounds like you better be getting ready! Will the epi not dull the gallbladder pain?

That was my thought about the epi too. I had a lovely condition during my third pregnancy called pubic bone separation (every bit as painful as it sounds) because I did too much during our move and stretched some ligaments in that area. It hurt constantly and it wasn't until I got my epidural while in labor that it actually felt better-it was the first time I felt good in weeks.

 

[Adi12982]

DH ended up aking me to the ER about 12:30 .....

ER nurse kinda smirked at me when I told her I was 38weeks and ripped up the paperwork I filled out and sent me to L&D and asked if this was my first. I told them it was but that I knew the pain was my gallbladder. She smirked again and said "Sure, honey, but we've just got to have them check you." Fair enough, I think that's protocol, right?

So we'll see whether or not Lucas stays put.
Today's to do list? Car seat and a hospital bag...

It is protocol - i went to the ER early in pregnancy and they asked how many weeks I was, past a certain point (I think 28 weeks) they have to send you to L&D, at least here in Miami.

Good luck with your to do list, at least it is fairly short. Enjoy your cookout too!!

 

[Maggimus]

patsy- i hate to hear that! Lucas will be here soon though! Definitely get that carseat ready-- how exciting. I hate that about your gallbladder-- what a headache. I hope you are feeling more comfortable today- dont over do it.

I am more excited... I think fear is setting in now though. Im starting to get bigger and wondering if ill get too big or gain too much. LOL. I know-- im a worry wart! I cant believe im 24wks-- seems like yesterday i found out i was pregnant!

 

[HomeSweetDisney]

Patsy! You had better take it easy lady! No more unpacking and putting strain on yourself. You'll have plenty of time for that AFTER Lucas is born So sorry to hear about the gallbladder pain though. That stinks! Hopefully when you are actually IN labor it wont be as bad as you're anticipating. In the meantime, get some rest girl!


Maggie, your belly is looking super cute! I know what you mean about the fear though. It's like the bigger your belly gets, the more real it all becomes. And the time flies so quickly! I'm just hoping these last 10 weeks wont drag by too slowly because it seems like up until now it has gone by so fast.

 

[Piecey]

Piecey, sounds like you better be getting ready! Will the epi not dull the gallbladder pain?

That was my thought about the epi too. I had a lovely condition during my third pregnancy called pubic bone separation (every bit as painful as it sounds) because I did too much during our move and stretched some ligaments in that area. It hurt constantly and it wasn't until I got my epidural while in labor that it actually felt better-it was the first time I felt good in weeks.

Nope, because the gallbladder is breastbone height. Epi's are done lower than that, so I'll feel it all with an epi still.

She said I'd have to do IV meds (a Nubain drip) to control the gallbladder pain.
But... they cut you off from the Nubain about 2 hours before they think baby will come, so if I chose to go that way I'd have those final two hours-ish with no pain meds at all... for the contractions AND the gallbladder.

I plan to have a serious discussion with my OB on Thursday morning about what the best options are for me... the gallbladder pain is excruciating (like, I thought I was having a heart attack) and I can't imagine trying to get through that and full-blown contractions without losing my sanity a bit. I want to actually enjoy having my son, not be hysterical...

I originally didn't want an epidural but if my OB thinks that the contractions are going to aggravate my gallbladder again, I'm going to have to get one, I think... She was the on-call last night but there was someone in labor and another on observation with me so I didn't want to tie her up, so I'll wait until my appt. on Thursday to talk to her in depth.

Patsy-I saw your status on FB and figured you probably had popped over here to explain so I had to come see what happened last night. Girl, you better take it easy! Especially with your gallbladder giving you fits like that.

Yeah... it's so hard though because right now I feel FINE! I look around and see how much there is left to do and I'm having issues just sitting here staring at the boxes!! I know I shouldn't, but maybe just one...

It is protocol - i went to the ER early in pregnancy and they asked how many weeks I was, past a certain point (I think 28 weeks) they have to send you to L&D, at least here in Miami.

Good luck with your to do list, at least it is fairly short. Enjoy your cookout too!!

I think it's lower then that here, then. I was sent to L&D in January when I was 21 weeks and went to the ER for the original gallbladder issues.




Thanks everyone! DH kept finding me doing stuff (hey, it needs done!) and so I've been banned to the couch and he's giving me a foot rub to keep me here...

Mendy-- thats great about the shower! Too funny that Madeline thought it was for her!
I can't wait to see the pictures but I guess I can wait for Kevin to see them first!

 

[MinnieFan4ever]

All of the 4D ultrasounds are so cute. The babies are just beautiful.

Piecey- You better settle down girl. Take it easy now while you can. Things will get done some how.

Today a sorted out all of Natalie's clothes by age. It is funny because I thought I had a ton of newborn stuff. I don't. I guess that is good because I have a feeling she will be at least 8 lbs. when she is born. I do need to pick her up some more pj's.

Hope everyone had a great weekend and we all have a wonderful week!!!!

 

[Piecey]

duplicate post... whoops!

 

[Piecey]

I know what you mean. I thought I had more small clothes than anything but I have a TON of 3-6. A crapton! I ended up keeping some of the onsies I'd originally bought at that Target clearance for my friends... they're in the laundry waiting on a moment when DH isn't looking.

I was right about my parents. This is my last 4 days at work (T, W, Th, F) and my dad took the week off and my mom was trying to convince me to let him drive the half hour where we live to get me and then drive me the half hour to work from here. He was pretty relieved when I told her I'm A-Ok to drive! That would have been crazy... how would one be Ok to work but not to drive?? She's crazy!!

I've been looking around at birth announcements and really, really want one that has several pictures on it but I can't find any that I love. I'm not willing to spend more than .50/card, either. Anyone seen any super cute ones? So far this is my favorite, but I don't love it.

 

[december]

My 88 yr old grandmother called me about 3 wks before Katie was born and told me I couldn't drive anymore! Uh, I'm 36 yrs old-I think I can decide that for myself. Plus, I worked until the day before she was born-what was I supposed to do?

Katie was only 7 lbs, but the newborn stuff was big on her at first. I'm still rolling up the sleeves on her gowns. Oh, and I love gowns so much more than pjs, even for boys (ds11 lived in them). It is so nice not having to snap anything after a middle of the night diaper change!

 

[Piecey]

Thats what my dad said- that my OB would have told me if I couldn't drive and my mom goes "But does she know you work a half hour away?"
Still... if I couldn't drive, I wouldn't have been allowed to work up until the end! (Which I am, but why lose the sick leave???)

I don't think I have any gowns, but I've got about 10 of those "Sleep Sacks" that Gerber makes.

I realized earlier I REALLY need a door- I'm worried about kitty and we keep forgetting Lucas' room doesn't have a dang door!! Talk about something pretty durn important to remedy ASAP!!

 

[Piecey]

Alright. I'm having contractions again. I swear I didn't overdo it.

Trying to figure out whether or not to go in ( I think i've got back labor tonight, and- of course- a gallbladder attack to go with it)....

Trying to time contractions by keeping my hands on my tummy but I'm having issues figuring out how much is actual tightening and how much is Lucas shoving his butt up yonder and making it feel hard

I think I'll go pack my bag and walk a dozen laps around the house and see what happens...

*ETA*
I'm going to bed. Whatever. We'll see in the morning or the middle of the night, haha.

 

[cseca]

Piecey,
Sorry to hear about your gallbladder issue. I hope you're feeling better today.
And if you make it to L&D today GOOD LUCK!!!!
We'll be waiting to see Lucas' pictures

 

[Disney Ron]

Patsy & Caitty - can't wait to see pictures of your little ones. Good luck with deliveries. Patsy I hope the gallbladder does not make you very uncomfortable until then.

Ann