I'm going to be a 1st mom in about 9 months (yay!). Even though I don't have kids of my own, nor do I have a lot of child care experiance...I do know better than to say "never". Or to put it another way - "Battle plans never survive the first engagement with the enemy"!

So while I have a list of things I want to do, I'm wise enough to know that I need to be flexable.
I want to cloth diaper. I want to breastfeed. I have no problems using pacifiers or bottles (bottles espeically because I"m sure DH will want to feed the baby too!). But if cloth diapers become too much or if BFing doesn't work out, I'm not going to sweat it too much (it's not like if we wind up using formula, we're giving the kid crack. BF is best but formula is ok too). Oh, and I do want to make my own baby food, but not out of my organic garden - just the organic produce section at the store!
I have a few things going for me. One is that I'll have a full 12 weeks mat leave to get a routine going (not schedule...routine! big difference!) so that (hopefully) once I go back to work I have a good idea of what works and what doesn't. Second is that I work from home full time, that allows me to run a load of laundry over my lunch hour or puree some baby food on my coffee break. I'll have more time than the average mom that works outside the home. In case you're wondering, the plan is to have a p/t nanny in the mornings while DH sleeps (he works 3rd) and I have to work in my office, the afternoons DH will take over baby watch until I'm off of work, then I get the evening/night shift.
The one thing I'm playing by ear is the whole "sleep" thing. As I said, my DH works 3rd shift so I'll be on my own with the baby at night.
I may decide it's easier to co-sleep rather than have to get up 3x a night and go into the nursery to take care of things. That's something that I think will wind up being trial-and-error and what ever seems to work best (really, whatever allows ME to get the most sleep! ha ha!) is what we'll wind up doing.