We went on Oct. 2. Took the girls to BBB to get their hair done (2:30) and we decided to try to head over to the park to get on some rides before heading to 1900 Park Fare for our 5:40 ADRs. When we got to the Grand Floridian (around 4:15) we decided to check and see if we could be seated earlier. No problem at all. We had a nice table and plenty of time to eat and meet the characters. So we head out about 6:00 to get to the monorail and onto the party. OH NO! We get on the monorail and after about 5 minutes of sitting not moving, they make an announcement that the monorail system will not be working for a while due to another monorail getting stuck. So everyone rushes out to make the boat. It took about 45 minutes for us to finally get on a boat and get to the party. So we did get there at 7:00 but we would have loved to have been their earlier!
We decided to just get a spot and watch the first parade. Then we just went crazy and rode rides all night. (We glanced at the fireworks, but we were on BTMR when the show was really happening - my little kids really don't like the fireworks) I can't think of any wait that was longer than 10 minutes (didn't do HM or POC). We had a super time. We didn't really do any trick-or-treating. I told the kids that we could go to the store and buy some candy that they want at another time. We loved seeing all the people in costumes. Everyone looked great. They were checking bracelets at every ride we went on!
So my biggest tip would be, forget the candy. If you have little ones that really think the candy is important, bring some with you and put it in their bags after each ride! That way they can get the kind they like and you have time for the "Disney" stuff!
Pam