My father used to own a small grocery store in a very poor area of town.  Back then there was no card but they got actual "stamps".  The kids would come in and use them because they lived with grandma or great-grandma and she couldn't get to the store.  She could send them and yes sometimes they would add a candy bar or a bag of chips to the order because grandma said they could.  I remember some of those kids so vividly and wonder what happened to them.  There is no way under the sun I would ever want to take that treat away from them.  They are still human and still children.  And yes there may be a good reason the kid has the card. 
Easter baskets?  Really?  You would take that away from these kids?  I could see complaining if the adult was buying beer but its for a child. 
As for the actually lobster and steak, I think that most ebt families need some information about stretching their food money through the month and how to feed their family healthy with the food, money and equipment that they have.   I have a family member that is on ebt and she seems to think she has to spend it all the moment it goes on the card.  Literally, she would stay up until midnight they night they put it on the card and go to 
Walmart and spend every bit of it at one time.  I told her that if she would not spend it all at one time that she could keep back enough to buy milk and produce every week.  She does buy the milk that way now, but very little produce.