I just started reading your planning journal. I have to admit I'm jealous of all the crafts you have done so far. I have a list of things I want to do, but my wedding is in 9 months and I wonder if I will actually get them all done. It is great that you started so early.
I'm so sorry to hear about all that you and your DF have went through with the passing of his father. My uncle passed away about six months before my cousin's wedding and I know how hard it was for everyone in the family.