I know how you feel about being lambasted at a PTO meeting. Last year, we were told that our school was going to merge with another Catholic school. They kept telling us that nothing was set in stone, but they thought we were stupid and didn't know anyone who worked for the diocese.
So, my kids went to the same school this year, but will transfer closer to our home for next year since I don't like the school that they merged ours into.
When they sent out the tuition information from our current school, in-parish would have continued to be the same... We currently pay $3,000 for the 2 kids. Since we don't belong to that parish, our tuition would have went up to $3,900 per year for the 2 kids. Plus, they said that they were only going to have one fundraiser for the entire year... you could buy out of having to sell raffle tickets based on the lottery drawing by paying $425 up front, or over 10-months, you could sell $500 of tickets per family.
So, instead of that, our tuition for next year will be about $3,200 in our own parish.
Our former school and the new school have been big feeders into the local prep HS. The one that my kids would have been transfered to isn't. That HS, currently, is $6,900 per student. And, to think... my first year there the tuition was $1,100 per year and I had a $900 scholarship.... at that time, my parents had a hard time making those payments.