Hey huggie! Welcome to the twos! My ds was terrible. He was two when dd was born. People would say How are things with the new baby? We would say, the new baby is perfect but ds is driving us

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Of course, we would ask what was wrong and would get no response. We would ignore him like Jo or I would say, you have to go to your room and sit on your bed until you have self control (stopped crying, kicking, screaming, flailing, whatever was going on). When you have control you can come out and tell Mommy what is wrong or what you need. It worked really well.
My dsil has twin boys that just turned 3.

We were on the phone the other day, one had been crying for 45 minutes. She asked about what we did and I gave her the scoop. She did it while we were on the phone, two minutes later he walked out and said, I would like a cracker please. Amazing!
It is so frustrating as a mom when this is going on. I also took ds to ped while it was going on. She said it was a sign of intelligence. LOL The jury is still out on that one!