Alright, I am going to give you my opinion... just remember,
you asked for it...
many, many many moons and ages ago, I was a model. Worked with many different photographers- one, as a matter of fact, from NYC that would actually fly into where I lived, would take my pictures for his portfolio and then leave-
Also, I not only got married once before- I used to do runway shows for wedding gowns, as well as other fashion shows. So I am used to being photographed----- a lot.
Anywho-
your photographer is not professional. His shots are not very good- and they always put their very best ones in their "Portfolio". His actions last night proved that your wedding and time and money- are not important to him.
A GOOD photographer can take someone that looks like they were drug in out of the pouring rain and make them look good. That's their job.
That's what the second photographer has done. He took ordinary people, angled them in the right light, and made them look fabulous. He is very good.
AS far as your contract goes with the first bone head, can you get out of it? You don't want to look back at your pics in 10 years and only have those to recall your day. Because that's what happens. You forget tiny bits of the day and you say "oh I wish I remember what happened at this point"- your pics- if you have a good photographer- is there for that.
IF you CAN"t get out of the contract-
ask someone that is a member of your family that you trust-
to be there with you to take digital pics of the entire thing.
Then go with the second guy for pictures after the wedding at some point.
I hope you can get it straight.
You really don't need this frustration right now-
sorry you're dealing with it-
Jo