mom2rtk
Invented the term "Characterpalooza"
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It seems like he got a free pass for not wanting to move. She was blasted for not wanting to move.
I agree.
It's not like they met, fell in love, then needed to negotiate a compromise with both sides giving a little.
They both agreed (or didn't agree) to things before they were matched for marriage. If he had been up front and said he wouldn't move, they could have tried to match her with someone else. It might be that her issues would have made that unsuccessful as well, but at least she would have had a chance.
It sort of seems to me like he agreed to move, then decided to pull back and never fully invest in the process.
I'm not sure if I think less of him for that or Ryan for running home to mommy.
The other Ryan was just a hot mess.