Married at First Sight

[dbogen]

Is anyone still watching? I'm not sure if they are uncomfortable with the camera's there, or if this really is their personalities. They all seem to be a little needy.

 

[sonnyjane]

Is anyone still watching? I'm not sure if they are uncomfortable with the camera's there, or if this really is their personalities. They all seem to be a little needy.

I think Sam has some serious mental issues and shouldn't have been cleared for the show. I feel sorry for Ashley because u find David VERY over-bearing, but she is the biggest prude ever. She wouldn't even answer the question about kissing. I can tell she is just counting down the minutes until her tune with him is over.

 

[NAB]

Still watching.

Sam was really rude to Neil when he was telling or asking her a question when the therapist was there and she said oh your talking to me....

I sure wouldn't want Ashley to be my nurse...she is so cold. David is really trying but don't see her doing anything but holding back. Hold his hand .

Tre and Vanessa are having the most fun with this. They have had people over to there house where the others haven't. They might be the only couple that makes it this time.

 

[lorimay]

I'm still watching.......
All I can say is, Does Ashley even have a pulse???? OMG....talk about a cold fish. I can't stand her. Didn't she watch the other seasons? They ask uncomfortable questions, theres a camera on you a lot. She should have never been on this show. Poor David, when he said he was falling in love with her, my heart broke for him. She doesn't even like him.

Samantha is a wacko. She has no filter at all. Neil is really trying. Does he realize what his life with her will be like? Makes me nervous just thinking about it.

I have loved Tres and Vanessa from the beginning, they are adorable. I hope they make it.

 

[Mizzoufan]

I like all the people. I don't fault of Ashley for being reserved I'd wouldn't wanna reveal such personal details on national tv.

 

[mnrose]

I like all the people. I don't fault of Ashley for being reserved I'd wouldn't wanna reveal such personal details on national tv.

Then she signed up for the wrong show.

 

[sonnyjane]

I like all the people. I don't fault of Ashley for being reserved I'd wouldn't wanna reveal such personal details on national tv.

Then perhaps auditioning for a reality show on which that's a requirement isn't your best bet! If you are so private, then just hire a matchmaker OFF CAMERA. The truth is she just doesn't like him. I have a feeling if a modelesque doctor started flirting with her, she would more receptive...

 

[MataHari22]

I cannot stand Sam and Ashley. Sam is just disrespectful to Neil. I just wanted to thump her when Neil was talking to her and telling her what he needed ( the scene while the therapist there) and she laughed and asked if he was talking to her. Sam wants him to communicate, but every time he does, she laughs in his face and makes a joke out of it.

Ashley, well, if it comes out that she is actually a cyborg, I wouldn't be surprised. Emotionless and absolutely no sense of humor at all. I totally agree with a previous post above, I wouldn't want her as my nurse, either. Every time she says she's "trying" and committed, I want to thump her.

Seems to me that Neil and David are really trying. Heck, they made dinner for their wives. I was married to my idiot for 15 years, together for 17, and he never once cooked a meal for me. Neil and David seem like solid, decent men.

As far as Trés and Vanessa goes, he does seem a tad immature, but she has that same kind of thing that Jamie has, thinking that everyone is going to leave her, so she pushes away and gets her hackles up pretty quickly. Right now, they look like the only ones who may make it.

 

[EMom]

I want to slap the experts. They have been downright cruel to David. To match him with a popsicle "deer in the headlights" like Ashley when he was the sort who repeatedly fell in love and scared women off was cruel. They DOOMED him to repeat them pattern of him being the pursuer and the woman getting panicked and fleeing. When I watch those two, all I see is Pepe LePew and that female cat. They should have matched David with a woman who was as commitment crazy as him, had marriage fever to the same degree or even more and not someone he had to woo and pursue, because that has failed him 100% of the time in the past. What they have done to him is plain old mean. They are idiots.

Tres and Vanessa stand a decent chance, but she has to stop getting so pissy on a dime. In her defense, I'd be a bit worried if his idea of having a good time with his dad and uncle is getting drunk...not drinking, but getting way drunk. Maybe it means more, maybe not.

Sam is nutty as a fruitcake. Neil may be quirky, but she is crazy. He is too good for her and needs to run from Crazytown. She will never be satisfied with him (or anyone) and will make him miserable. I think she's unstable.

The experts screwed up the matching on at least 2/3 of these couples.

 

[Bec3b1g]

I want to slap the experts. They have been downright cruel to David. To match him with a popsicle "deer in the headlights" like Ashley when he was the sort who repeatedly fell in love and scared women off was cruel. They DOOMED him to repeat them pattern of him being the pursuer and the woman getting panicked and fleeing. When I watch those two, all I see is Pepe LePew and that female cat. They should have matched David with a woman who was as commitment crazy as him, had marriage fever to the same degree or even more and not someone he had to woo and pursue, because that has failed him 100% of the time in the past. What they have done to him is plain old mean. They are idiots.

Tres and Vanessa stand a decent chance, but she has to stop getting so pissy on a dime. In her defense, I'd be a bit worried if his idea of having a good time with his dad and uncle is getting drunk...not drinking, but getting way drunk. Maybe it means more, maybe not.

Sam is nutty as a fruitcake. Neil may be quirky, but she is crazy. He is too good for her and needs to run from Crazytown. She will never be satisfied with him (or anyone) and will make him miserable. I think she's unstable.

The experts screwed up the matching on at least 2/3 of these couples.

Haha. Those are my thoughts on the couples, as well.

Watching Ashley makes me wonder if she's ever been in a romantic relationship. She seems very asexual and her bacherolette party now makes a lot of sense.

 

[BadgerGirl84]

I want to slap the experts. They have been downright cruel to David. To match him with a popsicle "deer in the headlights" like Ashley when he was the sort who repeatedly fell in love and scared women off was cruel. They DOOMED him to repeat them pattern of him being the pursuer and the woman getting panicked and fleeing. When I watch those two, all I see is Pepe LePew and that female cat. They should have matched David with a woman who was as commitment crazy as him, had marriage fever to the same degree or even more and not someone he had to woo and pursue, because that has failed him 100% of the time in the past. What they have done to him is plain old mean. They are idiots.

Tres and Vanessa stand a decent chance, but she has to stop getting so pissy on a dime. In her defense, I'd be a bit worried if his idea of having a good time with his dad and uncle is getting drunk...not drinking, but getting way drunk. Maybe it means more, maybe not.

Sam is nutty as a fruitcake. Neil may be quirky, but she is crazy. He is too good for her and needs to run from Crazytown. She will never be satisfied with him (or anyone) and will make him miserable. I think she's unstable.

The experts screwed up the matching on at least 2/3 of these couples.

I agree with all of this as well. It's my first time watching this show this season. I have no clue what they were thinking matching Ashley to David. I feel bad for the guy--I don't see this going well for him.

 

[EMom]

David told them what his problem has been that has made every relationship fail in the past and what did they do? They put him in an extreme version of that again! It's like the movie Groundhog Day on steroids. He has zero chance. That is why I say it is cruel. Yes, he is somewhat needy, so why doom him to failure? If you can't find a girl who is equally as desperate for marriage as David, then don't match him with anyone. Let him be. But to match him with someone as emotionally distant and cold as Ashley is only about a half inch off evil. I pity him.

 

[low-key]

I you can fall in love at first sight, its really romantic, I think of this song



My life is brilliant

My life is brilliant
My love is pure
I saw an angel
Of that I'm sure

She smiled at me on the subway
She was with another man
But I won't lose no sleep on that
'Cause I've got a plan

You're beautiful, you're beautiful
You're beautiful, it's true
I saw your face in a crowded place
And I don't know what to do
'Cause I'll never be with you

Yes, she caught my eye as I walked on by
She could see from my face that I was fing high
And I don't think that I'll see her again
But we shared a moment that will last till the end

You're beautiful, you're beautiful
You're beautiful, it's true
I saw your face in a crowded place
And I don't know what to do
'Cause I'll never be with you

You're beautiful, you're beautiful
You're beautiful, it's true
There must be an angel
With a smile on her face
When she thought up that I should be with you

But it's time to face the truth
I will never be with you

 

[DawnM]

Then she signed up for the wrong show.

I was thinking the other day that there is no way I could have ever done this!

 

[sonnyjane]

I'm very curious to see where Ashley and David go from here now that he knows she isn't attracted to him.

 

[Jeafl]

It looks like Ashley is trying to be polite and civil, but that is about it. She is not trying at all. I give that marriage zero chance.

Sam I think is a social idiot. She has no communication skills at all, and seems very immature. I have trouble imagining her as a successful bank manager. I feel bad for Neil because he gets shut down every time he tries to connect with her. How long before he figures it out it will never work and just checks out?

I've watched all three seasons of this show, and I can see why every single one of these people had trouble finding someone on their own. Their insecurities are so transparent. Why can the experts not see this? The only thing I can think of is that they were not themselves when they were being interviewed.

 

[mom2rtk]

It looks like Ashley is trying to be polite and civil, but that is about it. She is not trying at all. I give that marriage zero chance.

Sam I think is a social idiot. She has no communication skills at all, and seems very immature. I have trouble imagining her as a successful bank manager. I feel bad for Neil because he gets shut down every time he tries to connect with her. How long before he figures it out it will never work and just checks out?

I've watched all three seasons of this show, and I can see why every single one of these people had trouble finding someone on their own. Their insecurities are so transparent. Why can the experts not see this? The only thing I can think of is that they were not themselves when they were being interviewed.

But the only sort of people who would sign up for one of these shows are people who have issues and have been unable to find someone on their own.

 

[lisaviolet]

Just caught up.

The girls are all trouble to the relationships, obviously Vanessa in way smaller amounts than the other two - and more understandable and forgivable. I don't have an issue with any of the men. I feel all three are great guys.

Both David and Neil need to lay down the **** on their lovelies. Honestly, they are both going to get nowhere fast trying to be considerate, loving and fair to those two. I feel like both Sam and Ashley need a wake up call. As in "I'm not going to take your ******** anymore" conversation. Stop trying to understand crazy and holier than thou respectively, Neil and David. Whoever said marriage will not cure Sam of her issues is bang on.

David tries and almost gets there laying it down to Ashley, but wants to be the nice guy way too much and lets it go. I always get hopeful when he gets firm and then putter, putter, putter....

I'm going to preface that I could care less about looks. And hardly judge someone on them. But Ashley seems like a girl that thinks she's way more precious, way more attractive, way more interesting than she actually is and seems embarrassed that she has to be with David. The latest show proves she loves the barriers and is comfortable with them and the drama of it. The therapist asks David to let it all go, the romantic intimacy, FOR HER. He agrees to and she rolls her eyes and judges whether he can. She is annoying as hell.

Sam is downright abusive and cruel to Neil. I just watched the latest show and she said to her roommate in front of him "this fool tried to wake me up". I would have walked away from that or told her that is not going to cut it. And not having a key to her place, as her husband? WT F? Who accepts that? Grow some balls (I do feel compassion for him, but this needs to stop).

And Ashley saying that she can't talk about not being attracted to David because it would hurt him. Is she that stupid? Does she really not know that she is already hurting him daily when she won't even touch or kiss him. But I don't think her caring is real, she simply wants to seem like "what can I do? poor me" Ashley. Touch your friggin' husband and see that it might not feel icky for crying out loud. It might actually improve your connection.

Holy crap, I had so much to get out with these two! Laughing.

At least there are promos, from the decision making episodes, where Sam knows she has been an absolute witch.

 

[sonnyjane]

Just caught up.

The girls are all trouble to the relationships, obviously Vanessa in way smaller amounts than the other two - and more understandable and forgivable.

She just picks fights when she doesn't have to. For example this last episode when they were both talking about their dating history and Tres said he had been in two serious relationships before her, and she goes, "You've only been in TWO serious relationships before me?!?". Then she goes on to say that she had her high school sweetheart, one guy in college, and one guy after college, so THREE (if you include high school sweetheart which I do not for myself). I just thought it was hilarious how judgmental she was about him when she was basically in the same boat.

I'm going to assume that none of these three stay together (MAYBE Vanessa and Tres will), which means I'm REALLY looking forward to the reunion after everyone sees all their footage and reflects on what their partners said about them.

 

[lisaviolet]

Absolutely. Vanessa is so afraid of something going wrong, that she creates it.

I just loved when the therapist backed up Tres living the single life. Well he is single, what is he supposed to do at his age? Yeah Vanessa what was he supposed to be doing? Living as a monk because you are around the corner ready to judge.

That reunion should be something with Sam. Her comments are incredible. At least her father has Neil's back.