Maybe this is better for the overall running thread but how do yall deal with DNS out of your control. For those of you not in the Springtime Challenge thread. I was forced to DNS the 10 miler and the Challenge by extension when a piece of my Handcycle broke within less than two hours before the start has sent me into a mental funk in a way that I’m not used to mainly because I’ve never really been forced to DNS like this. Every DNS has been one I made well in advance of the race and it’s thrown me into a full on funk.
Any advice on how to deal with this? Not even DNFing has ever felt like this
Not sure that I have any advice for you. But I want to say I’m sorry that happened. It must be a huge disappointment. What I do think about is how tentative it is to be able to do any race. Especially one with so much logistics as these are. There are so many things that could go wrong with travel issues, health issues, family issues. My wife and I are in our upper 50’s and just started running about a year and a half ago. I try to remember how lucky we are to be able to do it and participate in the races. A hard reminder of that was in January when we attempted our first Dopey Challenge and marathon. My wife fell at about mile 20 and broke her wrist and we needed to abandon the race. We went through a range of emotions from massive disappointment to eventually putting it in perspective. Our challenge ended there, but we still achieved something that we never thought was possible. And now we are determined to try again next year. Something I keep hearing is that we ‘get to do this’ and that really makes sense.
I think that some time passing will help and I am sure you will be back at it for your next race.