Make it go AWAY!!!!!

[The Mayor]

I think it's the way of the internet boards in general. I wasn't on these boards yet, but one of my first message board sites I went to kinda went down the same path.
There were several boards for general discussion, but one board in particular you had to reach a certain level to gain access. Most things could be talked about there, but not on others. Between mass invasions of other boards and account suicides, the owner of the boards created a sign up sheet, and only those that had an account at that time were allowed to stay on that board.
At that time, the majority of users were high schoolers, mostly boys with a handful of girls. Now since it's the same group of people, and several years down the road, some are married, some have kids, some have big degrees in college.... and the topics are far from what they used to be.
The site was created in 98-99 and the lock down happened in 03, and now every one is grown up. It's so weird and not the same anymore.

I probably could use a debate board just for my topics. I feel like i have to gear up in a double layer flame suit prior to creating a topic.

Really, on the new and improved freindly Dis...I'm aghast

 

[Dan Murphy]

....other forums aren't my cup of tea

Hi Steve. You want to be mayor here in Chicago? His honor, the mayor, is about to pass he dad soon in tenure. (j/k)

I too still like the DIS as a forum of choice. Though I do not visit the community board much any more. I stop by and read a few times a week, give a for those are hurting, share my family now and then, celebrate the holidays. That's about it.

All message boards have their ups and downs. It's the nature of the beast.

I've been here since the beginning and think the Dis CB's heyday was during 2000 to 2002. Those times can never be duplicated; either you were here or you weren't. If you were here, you were lucky to enjoy it while it lasted. If you weren't, you'll never understand what you missed.

Even if the banned topics and members were allowed back, it can't ever be the same. Fun on a message board is a fleeting thing.

Here since early '99, Janice. Those were some fun DIS board years, no? I miss them, but they are history, no less so than the years are themselves.

....I've actually gone back to my Dis roots and mainly read and post on the Resort or Transportation Boards.

Same here, Steve, back to where I started. Most of the time on the theme park board, some transportation. I used to enjoy helping out on the tech board when I was able to and knew something in order to help, but those days are history too.

....Most of us come here for Disney info and stay for the friendships we've made. To me, that is important. ....

The friendships I have made here over the past eleven years have been, and are, among the best benefits I have derived from the forums. I have been able to meet so many folks from here over the years, along with their families. Have made a good number of personal, real life friendships over the years. One of my longest friendships here, Snoopy (Judi), will be refreshed in a few weeks, and really looking forward to it. Marie and I are heading to Wash DC and area for a week and a half later next month. One day we are spending with Judi, maybe one of her boys too. I have not seen her in a number of years, and both Marie and Judi are really looking forward to meeting each other for the first time. She is one classy lady, so thankful for the DIS in allowing our paths to cross.

....It was sorta like sitting around your family table and discussing things...

It really was.

And great having met you and your family too, Bren. Some day we have to get Marie there to the Smokies. Or better yet maybe, to WDW for a return visit.

 

[kaytieeldr]

I don't recall ever having posted with you before although I have read many of your posts.

I'm actually in Essex County...20 miles give or take as the crow flys.

As am I... care to narrow it down a bit more?

 

[shortbun]

I agree with you to a certain extent. There are so many people that used to be on here that I truly miss. They brought great opinions, diversity and yes, sometimes conflict and drama. But there was never a dull moment.

Yeah, it was more like a real community then. Now we have spanking, special children, mugs and drinking to talk about. Oh well. I only come here about a tenth of the time I used to anyway.

 

[raysnkaysmom]

It sounds like you just aren't going to the right threads. There are still heated discussions, some more civil then others, on topics that are not banned.

If you want debatable subjects, just click on any of the parenting threads. Personally, I think it is much more civilized to debate politics or religion than breastfeeding, homeschooling, spanking, or pretty much any form of parenting that isn't your own. I've learned from those threads that everything I have ever done in regards to my children is wrong and will damage them beyond repair.

I haven't visited much lately the past 6-8 months...alot has changed, and I may not even know all the rules that have changed!! I love a good debate, what I hate is those who can't debate without getting ticked.
And...yes...the kids topics always seem to win out over anything political! We are all bad parents according to some perfect DIS mom out there

But..all in all, I still think its what you make of it.. if you dont enjoy yourself on CB...I'd find somewhere else to enjoy your time. I enjoy it on occassion

 

[JerseyJanice]

Here since early '99, Janice. Those were some fun DIS board years, no? I miss them, but they are history, no less so than the years are themselves.

Yours is one of the friendships I return here to continue, Dan.

The friendships I have made here over the past eleven years have been, and are, among the best benefits I have derived from the forums. I have been able to meet so many folks from here over the years, along with their families. Have made a good number of personal, real life friendships over the years. One of my longest friendships here, Snoopy (Judi), will be refreshed in a few weeks, and really looking forward to it. Marie and I are heading to Wash DC and area for a week and a half later next month. One day we are spending with Judi, maybe one of her boys too. I have not seen her in a number of years, and both Marie and Judi are really looking forward to meeting each other for the first time. She is one classy lady, so thankful for the DIS in allowing our paths to cross.

Hope you enjoy your trip to D.C., Dan. May the weather and travel gods smile kindly on you and Mrs. Murphy.

And please send my love to Judi. Of those who I wish could be un-banned here, it is the real Dis Snoopy I'd most want to see back.

 

[Buckalew11]

As am I... care to narrow it down a bit more?

Well, Duh! He's the Mayor of Essex County, silly.



Hey Dan...I treasure your friendship beyonds words. You've been both patient and a true friend to me. One day soon we'll do a day at WDW again!!

It is weird actually, because Janice and I got into it many years ago on the debate board ( the escape convict deal, lol) and I remember I was so darn mad at her. We talked it out and are good internet friends nowadays. Crazy how things work out sometimes.

And yes, Snoopy... Spent a very fun weekend with her once in PF, TN. I let her drive me and my car to a secluded cabin... I miss her--haven't talked to her in ages.

TheMayor, I am glad you understood what I meant with my pp. Gosh, I miss those talks.

 

[Aisling]

One of my longest friendships here, Snoopy (Judi), will be refreshed in a few weeks, and really looking forward to it. Marie and I are heading to Wash DC and area for a week and a half later next month. One day we are spending with Judi, maybe one of her boys too. I have not seen her in a number of years, and both Marie and Judi are really looking forward to meeting each other for the first time. She is one classy lady, so thankful for the DIS in allowing our paths to cross.

It's good you got to know the classy side of her. She now spends her time on another board criticizing and ridiculing current DISers.

 

[JerseyJanice]

It is weird actually, because Janice and I got into it many years ago on the debate board ( the escape convict deal, lol) and I remember I was so darn mad at her. We talked it out and are good internet friends nowadays. Crazy how things work out sometimes.

Oh, gosh, I remember that! I behaved like such a fool, and I'm glad we worked things out and became friends, Brenda. You are always such a lady, and yours is definitely an internet friendship I treasure.

One of these days, we have to meet in Beach Haven. Hey, if you come this summer, there's a good chance I'll have access to my cousin's house there. I've been told I'm welcome to stay there anytime--without my dog though.

 

[snapppyd]

Some of my best times were hanging out with my "friends" on the community board, back around 2005. Oh well, time marches on and so must we. There are still plenty of wonderful people here, you just have to look around and find the right "fit".

 

[MaryAnnDVC]

This:

All message boards have their ups and downs. It's the nature of the beast.

I've been here since the beginning and think the Dis CB's heyday was during 2000 to 2002. Those times can never be duplicated; either you were here or you weren't. If you were here, you were lucky to enjoy it while it lasted. If you weren't, you'll never understand what you missed.

Even if the banned topics and members were allowed back, it can't ever be the same. Fun on a message board is a fleeting thing.

You're right...those WERE the good ol' days, and those who weren't here, couldn't possibly understand. There were some very fun and bonding discussions, as well as some great debates, as Brenda said, with people you knew and "understood."

I've "met", (and actually met a few), some of my favorite people in the world (including, from this thread, Dan, DisMN, Buckalew11, JerseyJanice and Snoopy) on the CB, most from many years ago.

 

[dejr_8]

If you don't like the topic of thread don't open it. You have all the control in what you read on a discussion board.

Isn't it that simple?

 

[Deb in IA]

I'm one who has been here from the beginning, back when there were only 4 boards at this site!

Although I have not met many of us "old-timers" in person, I have had long Internet friendships with many here, including Mare, JJ, DisMN, Dan, and Buckalew.

I too miss Snoopy. I miss Blondie too.

JJ, I agree with you that the "golden years" of the CB was around 2000 to 2002. Lively discussions, a lot of fun and some rather heated moments, but the difference was that we RESPECTED and "knew" each other - as well as you can truly "know" someone on an Internet bulletin board. Remember Bernie's Friday Places Posts? Remember the Friday Mens' posts, and the Friday Women's posts? Those were great times, and I miss them.

I think the CB has just gotten so big, with so many people, and with so many subjects that are "off limits" these days, it is just not the same. But, as time marches on, things change, people come and people go, stuff drifts away and new things come along. I guess that's just the natural history of this type of thing.

 

[MaryAnnDVC]

I'm one who has been here from the beginning, back when there were only 4 boards at this site!

Although I have not met many of us "old-timers" in person, I have had long Internet friendships with many here, including Mare, JJ, DisMN, Dan, and Buckalew.

I too miss Snoopy. I miss Blondie too.

Another fave...Deb!

 

[FlightlessDuck]

I think all off topic posts on other forums should get moved here. That might make it more lively.

 

[Planogirl]

We did have some serious fun didn't we? I loved the debates and the silliness and the characters that hung out here. Even the nasty people helped give this place the kind of goofy atmosphere that was so appealing. With certain exceptions of course.

The DIS lost its edge when the 'changes' happened. I still don't understand any of it but I know that in the long run that it hurt this place. At least for me because many others seem to appreciate that it all happened. I miss a lot of people though.

I still come here because there are a few left over that I really admire plus I like the subject matter. It's still the best place to discuss the parks.

 

[aduck126]

It's good you got to know the classy side of her. She now spends her time on another board criticizing and ridiculing current DISers.

seems like you spend some time over there too. I'm sure your "classy" side made you post that about someone you don't even know.

 

[xoprincessmomxo]

I think the CB has just gotten so big, with so many people, and with so many subjects that are "off limits" these days, it is just not the same. But, as time marches on, things change, people come and people go, stuff drifts away and new things come along. I guess that's just the natural history of this type of thing.

I completely agree. I wasn't here during the good ol' days, but it sounds like a close knit group. I'm sure there were some oddballs (there are on every board I assume) but that's just what gives a place character.

 

[Jennasis]

I've been around since '2000 too and all of this is starting to sound suspisciously like when DH and I whine about how today's music is all lousy and can't hold a candle to the stuff from our day.

It also seems somewhat, I dunno, unfair to the people who ARE still here. Like "you guys are OKAY, but those posters who got banned were SOOOOO much better."

There are plenty of folks left who keep this place interesting and there is the added bonus of my blood pressure not skyrocketing everytime I log on. I understand that some of you miss your friends. I miss some of them too.

 

[Planogirl]

It's good you got to know the classy side of her. She now spends her time on another board criticizing and ridiculing current DISers.

Not everyone that goes there does that. Some of those people contributed to what we're referring to too.