The maintenance fees is what is killing our desire to purchase DVC as well, but not in the way you might think.
When we visit Orlando, we stay in 2 bdrm condos offsite. We are not willing to stay in lessor accomodations, so no studios or 1 bdrm units for us. We are also not willing to do Sun-Thurs stays exclusively, and split our stay.
So,comparing apples to apples, a 2bdrm for 7 nights at the resort of our choice, and during the season we prefer, will cost us 270 pts per year. Our minimum investment would be $22K, and the maintenace fees would be nearly $1200. per year. For that same $1200 per year, I can rent from an owner at Bonnet Creek, or any of the Marriott timeshares, AND pay for a rental car, without being out the initial investment! All of these will offer 2 beds in the 2nd bdrm, so neither of my children has to sleep on a pull out couch, and I believe most of these locations offer 3 bdrm units as well, should I decide to splurge as the kids get older.
I know we could do DVC cheaper, if we wanted to, but that would involve staying only certain days, having smaller accomodations, splitting stays, banking and borrowing points to go every 2nd or 3rd year, or, all of the above.
It breaks my heart, but I think it is what makes financial sense for us.