Okay..my documents came today..so now I've really got them.
Anybody doing a day or two at Disney prior to the cruise?
Kind of... We're flying in the night before and staying at a non-view Animal Kingdom Lodge room on DVC pointes. It was actually the cheapest (pointe wise) of all the locations.
Afterward, we're going to Disney's Vero Beach resort for 3 nights.

This gives me the opportunity to check it out without having to stay too long if I hate it.
I saw one woman last time change her daughters outfit for each pic with each princess. She had them all!
! Before we know it, we'll be back from the cruise & on these boards talking about how much we miss the ship
. But don't want to think about that now! I'm done packing and ready to go

If you think it will be a problem, you can see if there is any way for them to change it once you get on board.
I think it will be Tues night. As far as Princess theme... seems like the Princesses are available everyday somewhere. We have never done it, but there is also a tea with Wendy (or Alice?) that mom and daughter can attend.