ok...so someone please explain the difference, as simply as possible, between TERM and WHOLE life insurance?? My dh passed away this year so I really need to get it together and get some life insurance for myself.
Don't get whole life. It's NEVER advised by financial experts. Essentially, they market it as an "investment". It's just about the worst investment you can make. Whole life policies are expensive for a low benefit amount. The "selling point" is that they last your entire life. The downside is that you usually end up contributing MORE in premiums than your policy is even worth (this is what the ins. co. is banking on...that they won't have to pay it out until you have paid into it to fund it fully). They are only a "good deal" for YOU (your beneficiaries), if you die within a couple years of signing up...
Term policies are for a predetermined amount of time (10, 15, 20, 30 years). You choose the term. Most people will choose a term that will coincide when their dependents will be INDEPENDENT and/or your mortgage and debts will likely be paid off.
DH and I have 20 year TERM policies. They will "expire" around when our kids are in their mid 20's. By that point, we should not NEED to leave them any money, but we will also still be rather young ourselves (in our 40's), so we can reevaluate at that time if we need to do another term policy.
The benefit to TERM policies is that you can get a much higher benefit at a lower monthly cost. You won't get back any of the money you pay into it. It's like traditional insurance in that regard. You are paying for the peace of mind.
Most experts recommend leaving dependents an amount equivalent to 10x your annual salary. This is usually enough to provide for your family financially for at least 10-20 years, if invested wisely and the interest is paid out to provide income. As a mother of three, it would behoove you to get as much coverage as you can (the underwriters will limit how much you can have "on your head"). Your cost will be approx $20-75 per month, depending on your risk factors and how much coverage you get. For example, my Marine husband (high risk job) has a term policy of $1.1M for a cost of $47/month. I have $500k of coverage (since I'm a SAHM) for $19/month. We have it through our bank (USAA).
Usually, if you have other insurance (car, home owners, etc.) through a company, you can get a better deal on a term insurance policy through them as well.