anricat
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- Feb 20, 2014
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No. I am not saying that. It's just...different and you can't equate the two experiences. Plus, as I already indicated to you previously, this is less about me (an able-bodied personal training and group fitness instructor) and more about my teenage daughter who really will need a golf cart and feeling uncomfortable about that. As I said, she just feels a little self-conscious about being disabled and literally nothing I say about it is going to make her feel less different or uncomfortable about it. I had a really hard time getting her to use a wheelchair at Disneyland. She literally powered through our first day with her forearm crutches and was completely destroyed before she eventually let me rent one the next day. We have a placard for the car to park in accessible spaces and she literally will almost NEVER use it. And yes, I'm aware, as you pointed out earlier, this is a me (her) problem. Ultimately she just doesn't want to feel like she's different. She will try to power through and then be a wreck before she admits to herself that her body isn't like other people's bodies.So you’re saying you’ve never walked a half mile at the parks without stopping? I find that hard to believe.
Overall, I'm just not thrilled about the way this is set up. Maybe I'll feel differently in January. Maybe I'll still find it annoying. Who knows. Either way, you aren't required to understand it or agree with me. And we'll all just have to accept that my child isn't going to change the nature of her insecurities overnight and that's okay too.