Laura - just skimmed this page - hope that the birthday party goes smooth.
Debbie

I went to see the bond movie, and there was a HSM poster there and guess who I thought about?
The Bond Movie was amazing. What is best? My Step Dad took the day off to take me to a movie. Driving back, I realized that I have been so hung up on my guilt about my real dad, his illnesses, etc and my lack of visiting/calling. We talk now about 10 minutes a month. Very strained - but I have this wonderful man with no biological connection to me - who walked me down the isle, who took my sons first pictures, who has been there for EVERY special moment, who is the grandfather to my children that I always wanted for myself. I don't know, I've just had a moment to where I realized just how very blessed I am he is in my life. He's so very involved. He loves my best friend, knows my hobbies, my interests. My real father couldn't answer any of those questions for a million dollars even if he had his facilities. He elected not to attend my wedding so my SM wouldn't be mad my mom was there. SO, I decided maybe I am looking at this thing all wrong. Blood really doesn't make a dad. - You know?
So, I'm in an absolutely wonderful mood. I had a wonderful "date" today. Tomorrow is Nicolas' last soccer game. Trying to decide if we will do it in the spring. He is OKAY with it, but not nuts over it and let me just say, it is a PITA to do practice with Mia and then the games on Sats. I have to make a decision by tomorrow - it ends at midnight (registration). Words of wisdom? I had thought about just doing the open play at our YMCA instead.
I got to have lunch with my best friend today that has been having tyroid issues. There seems to be an enlargement, so that has been emotional, but we are hoping/praying for the best.
Well, that is my update. I am now what - 6 pages behind in reading.

I can't keep up sometimes, but I do think of all of you often.
