I agree, but unfortunatly the news made it to the disboards anyway, and speculation was beginning. I am putting an end to it. If they were a friend of yours, you will know already.
I didn't make the annoucement, and in fact am disappointed that it was made. The problem is, this is not the forum for such discussion. I have already spoken with the remaining people on board and they have stated that they will make an announcement to the disboards when the time is right for them. This is *THEIR* right and no one here should speculate until that moment comes. All I can say to everyone back home is to wait until that time. Its unfortunante, but if it was your mother or father or aunt or uncle who passed, you'd want the same thing. The posting on the Cruisetober thread was wholly inappropriate, contained nothing but speculation, and did nothing but cause panic among disboarders wondering if it was thier loved one. Please trust me, as someone who was there and has spoken to the members of the sailing party that stayed behind, those who need to know, have been informed, and they will inform this community when the time is right.
This is also my last post on this subject. I'm a former (Not that you ever really are former) EMT, and I'm on vacation. I'll do what I need to when pressed, but I think we all need to move on from this subject. Do not hesitate to post condolences, they have been seen and are appreciated, but please stop with any other speculation or requests for information.