My mother has the same problem. She's 5ft tall! I told her that we'll use her wedding dress for a first communion dress.
I think that's so special that you're honoring her in that way.

Do you have any pictures to share of your Grandmother wearing the dress, too? You look so lovely!
I asked Gram for some pictures, hopefully she'll mail them and I'll post them (HINT HINT GRAM)
look at this pic i've been saving for your dress inspiration...this is a demetrios dress
here are my preliminary thoughts
1. maybe they can make the top a corset lace up top in the back and use that bra stuffing lace to make a privacy panel. that way, you get rid of the lace in the front, but still have the feel of the dress, which is beautiful
2. the bolero is a good idea i think for the ceremony, you'll be warm during the dp
3. it DOES have a train. i just knew it did
4. a simple veil will go best and i bet you could use the lace to make a veil
5. is it meant to be worn with a crinnie?
6. i like the sleeves.
7. how will you bustle it?
Caryn, I like that dress, but I'm concerned that my movements will be restricted in a neckline like that. (What if I suddenly feel the need to lift my arms all the way up?!?)
1.) If I do a corset, then I can't have the buttons. I like the buttons (with a zipper)
2.) I'm excited about the bolero. I think I'm going to see if they can take the original sleeves (also with buttons) and have them be the sleeves of the dress.
3.) Yes, it has a train. I'm def going to shorten it.
4.) We'll see on the veil. I don't know yet.
5.) Yes, I tried it on with yours on Sunday night.
6.) See comment 2
7.) It depends on if I keep the train or not.
The dress is lovely, I'm sure a professional will be able to help you restore and make it your own.
Lovely surprises in the post.
Your eBay find led me to having a look and I ended up buying this...
Its not arrived yet though.
LOVE THEM!!! Seriously, what did people do without ebay
I love that you are going to where your grandmother's dress. It is a beautiful dress too. I think Caryn's inspration dress is perfect....an inspiration to let you know it can and will be done and be YOUR dress.
Caryn you had some breat ideas to use the lace for the veil and a corset back may be the way to help the fit.
I can't wait until you take it to the restoration places and see what they tell you.
If you do not want a video then you should not waste the money on it.
Thank you! I'll post lots of pics and a full report from the restoration place
It Is Wonderful You Have Your Grandmas Dress To Wear, I Love The Ideas Both You And Caryn Have Of Using Different Parts Of The Dress In Other Ways, Its Gonna Be Beautiful! It Is Now!
My Grandma Used To Do Hand Embrodery (sp) On Hankies, Well My Aunt Had One, I Got To Carry Wrapped Around The Stems Of My Flowers, It Was Nice To "have" Her With Me In A Way On That Day!!
See, now thats an idea. Maybe I'll take some of the lace and use it to make hankies for Gram, Mom, Aunt's etc...
That dress is gorgeous! I hope the restyling works out for you.
Sometimes cleaning the gown will restore it to the original color and then you could use the seam allowances. My best friend restyled her mother's dress-- it had yellowed over the years but she threw the gown into her bathtub with some Woolite and let it soak overnight and when she rinsed it out the next day, it was good as new! Of course, she knew she was taking a BIG, HUGE risk doing this but it worked for her. Her gown was not satin and lace, though, so I wouldn't recommend you try this at home with such delicate fabrics. I hope the gown restoration company can help you with yours!
I've been mostly lurking on your PJ. Everything looks fantastic so far! I love the Sleeping Beauty box and cake toppers -- what great finds!
OH MY GOD I THINK I'D DIE!!! SHE PUT THE DRESS IN WOOLITE!?!! Forget that, I couldn't even die. My mother would KILL ME!! I'm SOOOOOO glad it worked out for her! Talk about stress
edit: WHERE IS MY CAKE????????
Caryn, you are weird.
Lindsay, I love your theme!
And I really like your dress, when I saw it, I thought right away it looks like Sleeping Beauty's dress with the sleeves but then I read your changing it so nevermind

But it is beautiful.
Can't wait to read more
Thanks!
What a pretty dress! YOu are going to look sooo pretty on your wedding day!
Thanks!
Thanks everyone for all of your comments and support. I'm really excited about this, but also REALLY nervous. I'll let you all know what the people say. I also have my site visit and a meeting with Randy on Friday so I'll post about that as well.