Life After Marathons: A Running/barre3/Coffee/Life Journal

After you mentioned that you were committing to try a barre class I found some barre videos online that I could do because my small town doesn’t have a barre class. I can’t wait to hear how it is!

Yay! I got started with barre through online videos. I hope enjoy!
I will definitely share some thoughts about my experience within the next few days.

Also +1 to running in the rain in the morning!!

We'll see what happens with the forecast ... it likes to change on me sometimes.

I'm sorry I'm so behind - traveling from Florida and other life stuff got in the way ...

Totally understandable!

But HOLD UP. Nobody talks about my sweet friend Sarah like this - not even Sarah herself!

You really dont want to hear some of the other things I say about myself ...

you run, you're a runner. Not a casual runner, you're a real runner. A bonafide real, serious runner.

I think I have to admit that I'm a serious runner ... apparently I'm the only person at work who actually tracks their mileage. (I like to join random conversations at work)

Are you an elite? NO. But - really, there are like 20 of them in the world! OK, a few more than that, but you get what I mean.

And then there are nurses from Arizona who come in second in the boston marathon ... I'm definitely not that either.

Your pursuit of the 9+1 is amazing to me, and how you've taken it on with SUCH gusto and have completely been able to give your life to it while studying, starting a new job and acclimating to that new job is so impressive.

Thank you for your kind words! I think part of the reason why I got so into the 9+1 is because it gave me something to focus on while I was job hunting and adjusting to the new job. I originally wasnt even sure if I was going to use the guaranteed entry - I figured I'd decide when the registration window opened.

I think why you're feeling the "meh" about the marathon(s) is because you KNOW they're a foregone conclusion. They seemed like a challenge before, but now? Bah, you've got this. It's nothing. It doesn't scare you like your first half did. The thought of training for it, or adapting your life around the race doesn't even push you slightly out of your comfort zone. You've already got this. You don't fail. You may fall - we all do - but we get back up and get to our goals.

Dont say the "F" word. I haven't fallen in a few years ... I'm trying not to fall again. It hurts. The ground is not very soft.
Also ... thank you :)

I'm so proud of all the things you've accomplished - you continue to amaze me each week when you post what you're doing. And I can't WAIT to watch you crush everything in January!!

Thank you! :hug:
I hope you're equally excited to see me completely panicking in January, because that's just as likely.

As for Cold Brew - I have a special pitcher, but I grind my beans at the market because I don't like to have Unitaskers in my kitchen. I usually do a medium roast or sometimes a chicory coffee if my store has one that sounds interesting, but I only grind it to like a medium/coarse. I also let it steep in the cold brew pitcher for at least 24 hours, but it's got a little mesh filter that's easy to pull out, dispose and clean.

Cold brew pitcher. Interesting.
I use a finer grind, because I buy pre-ground stuff, so it needs less time to step, but I should probably try buying beans to grind in store and use a coarser grind. That will probably help.

This sums it up really well. And crossing the finish line after a marathon is so much better than a half - the sense of accomplishment, sheer exhaustion, relief it is over, is almost incomparable. I never know if I should laugh or cry and want to do both. At the same time.

I'm not sure it any of that is something to look forward to - exhaustion, laugh or cry, and relief that it's over tend to be hallmarks of a day at work sometimes - but thanks for the insight :)

I also think Disney would be the perfect first one, as it can be enjoyed more than a traditional one.

I definitely understand that idea!

I meant to come over here yesterday and tell you to not judge yourself against others in the Barre class. When I took my first class, I was very intimidated. First off, everyone was wearing the same socks. I was like "did I miss a memo or something?" Turns out the studio sells "sticky socks" and most people buy at least one pair. I own like 12 now as I bought them with the studios had sales. I also felt really out of place as the movements are not things you are used to doing and if your studios is like mine, they will do the same warm up routine for a few months so everyone seems to know what is coming, but you which can feel awkward. But I went back after that first class and soon I was way more comfortable. Plus the classes are HARD. So really everyone is focused on themselves and not you even if you think they are judging you. Also I used to feel weird if the instructor had to come over and correct my form, but it was also something I got use to.

THANK YOU!!! I really appreciate all of this - reading your insight/experience definitely makes me a little less nervous about what I'm walking into in 2 hours.
Also ... those grippy socks are not cheap! (The studio says some people wear them, but they're not required ... not sure if I'll be the only one not wearing them)
 

So....is barre class like ballet for grown ups? Not that I'm still bitter or anything about my mom not letting me take ballet when I was little :rolleyes1
 
So....is barre class like ballet for grown ups? Not that I'm still bitter or anything about my mom not letting me take ballet when I was little :rolleyes1

Somewhat but not entirely. So maybe barre could make up for your lack of ballet as a kid...
I did ballet for about 6 months as a kid. And then for a semester in college.
 
Okay.
I had to walk out about 20 minutes into the class.
But I'm not dead. I went back in and finished.
I'm on the subway now. I feel bad for the woman sitting next to me, since I probably smell.

More thoughts coming later.
 
Barre3: First Thoughts

I've been wanting to do some cross training for a little while now. For a few years, I did online Pilates and Barre/Ballet videos, but I never really progressed as much as I could have, and I was never as consistent as I should have been. I decided to try taking a class somewhere to see how it went, and since I was always interested in barre, when I discovered that barre3 was close to my office, I decided to sign up for a class (which ended up being purchasing three classes because that's their beginner package).
Barre3 is not straight barre - it's a workout that incorporates barre, pilates, and yoga. I think. But anyway, on to my thoughts on my first class ...

I got there and the woman at the front desk (who was very nice and enthusiastic and welcoming) gave me a waiver to sign and showed me the changing rooms, bathroom, lockers, water, and charging station.
I changed, put my stuff in a locker, moved my stuff to a different locker when I realized that there were bigger lockers (my bag fit in easily!), and then made my way into the studio. I grabbed a towel, a ball, and weights, and found a spot by the barre, where I just wasted time and stretched a drop. The woman from the front desk introduced me to the instructor, who asked about any injuries. I mentioned historic knee and back pain, and she said she'd make sure to call out modifications.
A few seconds before class was supposed to start I realized I wasn't wearing my Fitbit, so i ran out to get it ... which meant I missed the start of class. Note to self: next time make sure I move the Fitbit when I change.

The class started off okay, but hard. It was leg stuff and a bunch of poses/exercises I had never heard of (what is horse pose???), some with hand weights. My legs were shaking pretty much from the get-go. I knew less than 15 minutes in that this was too advanced for me.
After a little bit, I started to feel lightheaded, dehydrated, and like I just couldn't do any more. I tried drinking water, and when that didn't help, I sat down by the barre with my head between my knees. The instructor came over, asked if I was okay, and said I could go out for air and come back when I was ready. So I did.

I came back in once I had splashed some water on my face and was feeling a little better. I joined back in with what they were doing and was able to mostly follow along, trying my best to modify as needed. A little bit after I came back we went down to the mats, and once we did that, I felt like I was doing a little better at working within my range and modifying.
Maybe it's just because I've done pilates before so I'm more used to the mat, but I definitely felt more comfortable once we were on the mat. I did have to modify a few things and work within a smaller range than some people, but I was able to at least partially do everything, which was great.
Also ... I'm not so good at alternating right and left.

Overall Thoughts:
- It was definitely too advanced for me, and too intense early on.
- It seemed like more yoga and pilates than barre ... the only time we really used the barre was for supported push ups. So not really what I was expecting, but I actually that bothered by it. Plus, other instructors may do it differently (the class after me they were told to take straps), so if I go to a class with a different instructor, it may be more barre.
- There were a lot of planks. I didn't do great, but I did better than I expected. Only had to go down to my knees a few times. But this kinda does make me think about maybe trying planks a little more.
- I saw the instructor correcting/modifying some people. I don't know if she didn't do that for me because it was my first time or if my form was actually okay.
- I think what happened that led me to have to walk out had very little to do with the workout and a decent amount to do with me just not realizing how I would be affected by the heat combined with the intensity. For next time, I need to eat before, hydrate better (with electrolytes), and wear a tank top (I wore a short sleeve race shirt today).

And yes, I think there will be a next time. I need to be better about working within my range and modifying (a lot), but I liked it enough to go back for my remaining two classes. Even when I was feeling really bad, I still didn't hate it. Beyond that ... we will see.
Don't know when the next time will be, since the 6:30 class fills up quickly and I don't love having to leave work before 5, but hopefully I'll decide on a time soon.
 
Non-Barre related thoughts:
- It's almost bedtime. Still don't know if I'm running tomorrow morning or after work. Scattered Thunderstorms in the afternoon from like 5ish-7ish, which is when I would be running. But I'm tired, I want to sleep in, and I want to give myself some time in between my barre class and running (although my legs don't feel terrible). I may just pick out running clothing tonight and then make a decision when my alarm goes off at 5am tomorrow.
Also, I haven't made my lunch yet and I'm too tired to make it now.
EDIT: The plot thickens ... accuweather does not have rain tomorrow afternoon. Weather.com does. Who do I trust???

- I'm extra snarky today. I noticed it in the morning, when I suggested to my coworker that we rewrite a decent part of our codebase so that I didn't have to write the words "this does nothing" in my documentation (it's just a small thing that does nothing, but it bugs me nonetheless), but it's still going strong. It's a snarky kind of day.

- I really need to stop spending time on certain parts of the boards. I keep forgetting until I remember again. And then I get pissed off at myself. It's an annoying cycle. (Also, people need to learn to not take me seriously when I say things)
 
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Grr ... Thunderstorms still in the forecast for this afternoon. (Also, fun note, my phone autocorrects 'get' to 'grr').
Not sure I have it in me to go out right now, though. We'll see how the next 10 minutes go. I'm hoping I can muster up the energy to go out (although my legs do hurt a little from yesterday, so I may be extra slow), but if not ... I'll bring my stuff to work, hope the forecast is wrong, and if it's not, I'll either treadmill when I get home or go out super early tomorrow (I like to leave for work before 8 on Fridays and my hair has to look decent, so going out normal time doesn't really give me enough time to get ready).

Update: I'm gonna get a little caffeine in me and go out. I don't really want to, but that's just the way things go sometimes. We'll see if I get in the full three miles or not.
Also, I have to remember that rain or not, I still have to go pick up my race stuff after work today. Which was the whole point of running after work ... kill two birds with one stone. Stupid thunderstorms.
 
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My gait was a little off this morning, which I think was probably a stretching issue, but otherwise, all was good with my run. Signed up for another barre3 class Monday at 5:15. I'm also on the waiting list for the 6:30, but honestly, I think I'd rather do the 5:15 because it's the same instructor I had yesterday and I kinda liked her, and the 6:30 is the guy who owns the studio, and I'm a little afraid of that. But we'll see. If I get into the 6:30 class, I'll make the decision then.
I also may cancel if I feel like I'm not up to doing it the day after a race. But I'll make that decision Sunday night/Monday morning.

Assuming I don't hate my second class, I think the plan will be to do one class every 3-run week (I have weeks with 3 runs and weeks with 4 runs on my plan) on a non-running day with either no run or an easy run the next morning. That's not confusing at all, right?

I should probably leave for work soonish... expect a bib number update at some point later today.
 
I'm glad that you want to go back to the barre class even though it was tough for you. I suspect now that you know what to expect the next time will be much better.

We had wicked thunderstorms early this AM when we would have gone running, so we didn't head out. Have to try and make ourselves do it tonight. I'm not a good night time runner. Sigh.

One note, be careful with your running since introducing the barre and getting sore in other spots. If it's causing you to modify your gait, you could be headed for an injury. I know that's what happened to me when I went back to yoga and it made me miss several crucial training runs.
 
I'm glad that you want to go back to the barre class even though it was tough for you. I suspect now that you know what to expect the next time will be much better.

Yep, I definitely think it will be better next time because I know what I'm getting into. I'm looking forward to trying it again.

We had wicked thunderstorms early this AM when we would have gone running, so we didn't head out. Have to try and make ourselves do it tonight. I'm not a good night time runner. Sigh.

I'm actually faster at night (which is weird), but I hate it. I much prefer running first thing in the morning. It just worked for today ... until the weather report.
I hope you guys can get out for your run tonight.

One note, be careful with your running since introducing the barre and getting sore in other spots. If it's causing you to modify your gait, you could be headed for an injury. I know that's what happened to me when I went back to yoga and it made me miss several crucial training runs.

Thank you for this reminder! The particular gait change I noticed was something that was happening when I had knee problems a few years back, and that was solved by stretching. If I notice that the gait changes happen again even after I'm better at stretching, I definitely will have to pause and figure out if I'm on my way to an injury and need to change something.
 
Glad you survived the barre class. Does sound a little different than a straight barre class. I did Pure Barre which was only barre based. I was so sore the next day I could barely move. But like I said, it got easier. I do miss it some times and would do it again if the budget allowed.
 
Glad you survived the barre class. Does sound a little different than a straight barre class. I did Pure Barre which was only barre based. I was so sore the next day I could barely move. But like I said, it got easier. I do miss it some times and would do it again if the budget allowed.

I was looking for a Pure Barre type place (and was hoping this would be somewhat like that), but alas ... there isnt one near me.
I'm definitely a little sore, but not "cant walk" ... but that might be because I took a breather in the middle. I'm looking forward to it getting easier.

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Weather Update: Thunderstorms possible at 8:15pm. Grr. I could have waited and run after work (although my butt hurts more now than it did this morning). And possibly could have remembered to pack breakfast.
I also realized that I could have picked up my race bib on the way to work ... so it's just that kind of day.

Heading out of here in a few, then Starbucks Happy Hour (50% off latte whatup), then up to NYRR. I'll post my bib number once i have it.
 
Tracking Update
Bib Number: 6072
Live Tracking Link: liveresults.nyrr.org

Also ... I'm pretty sure I'm not wearing my Fitbit. It's possible that this was due to my last minute skirt change (I have a clip one that I clip to my skirt), but ... yeah.
At least I wore it for my run this morning.
Setting my alarm for 5:40 so I can catch you crossing the finish line!
 
Tracking Update
Bib Number: 6072
Live Tracking Link: liveresults.nyrr.org

Also ... I'm pretty sure I'm not wearing my Fitbit. It's possible that this was due to my last minute skirt change (I have a clip one that I clip to my skirt), but ... yeah.
At least I wore it for my run this morning.

It won't help you this weekend, but do you want my OG Vivoactive? I can send it and the charger to you.
 














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