eandesmom
I'm with Beast
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My guess is "yeah", but I've been wrong before (once).
Catch you in the morning...
We will see! He hasn't taken it yet but I'll post when he does.
Your Halloween party looks like so much fun! It makes me want to throw a Halloween party next year!
I'm sorry you are having so much drama with the soccer schedule. It must be so tough to navigate all of that.![]()
Sadly it is par for the course. We actually didn't know if K was going on the last trip until 6 weeks before and even then were worried something would happen. That was over middle school basketball of all things. It's really sad.
Ultimately it really isn't about soccer. For whatever reason his ex is truly bothered by K having a vacation with us. Normal life stuff, not so much, but the big memorable trips, she will always try to block. But just for K. Not T.
We worry about it a lot but we cannot control it. It just makes me sad that her whole life revolves around K. It isn't fair to either of them but she can't see it and emphatically does not feel that is what she is doing. If only she would date!
All we can do is try to and show another way. We do feel it is important that she know life does not revolve around her. And, at the end of the day if that means she misses out on this, then that is what it means. We resolved after last summer that we as a family wouldn't miss vacation again trying to work around things. We will do the best we can but if it doesn't work, it doesn't work. It doesn't make her less important but it also doesn't make her more important than the rest of the gang.
I have come up with 2 good back up plans though the planner in me would like it settled now!
& I agree the cupcakes look great....
Varsity for a Freshman is almost unheard of and an amazing amount of pressure...I agree she would probably have more fun the first year on JV...
I am so sorry that you are having these scheduling problems...ugggghhhh...
Family time should count for something too...
(BTW-I did the nerd test...and I'm smart enough to know not to share my scores...sheesshhh....![]()
You must be the coolest of all! Please it's not like a good score is actually a good thing.....
I wish it was about FUN.

it should be.