When my daughter was 3, she had genetic testing because they suspected Fragile X; that was negative and nothing else showed up. She was, at that time, diagnosed with Apraxia, a speech & motor disorder. As the years went on, we discovered that she had serious vision problems (no explanation), cognitive impairment (no explanation), severe anxiety and some accompanying psychological issues (no explanation), and then more recently the passing out issues (no solid explanation after many, MANY tests and procedures.) About a year ago, she was "accidentally" diagnosed with a rare genetic disorder because the new neurologist we went to for help with the passing out ordered all basic testing to be redone. BINGO, finally an explanation for ALL the issues that have dogged us all her life.......that we thought were simply "co-occurring" or comorbid.....they are really all part of the same thing. 15 years ago, when she was a toddler, this disorder wasn't even discovered. One of the geneticists we've worked with was telling me that a huge portion of the genetics research going on right now is trying to unravel the autism mystery. Someday we're going to learn how all those different pieces fit together.
Keep looking for other parents - they're out there - you've just been so busy supporting your daughter that you just haven't crossed paths with them yet!
Keep looking for other parents - they're out there - you've just been so busy supporting your daughter that you just haven't crossed paths with them yet!