That is a hard project to undertake with kids running around. I'm glad you were able to do most of it without the kiddos and have some quality time with the other adults.
Yeah, it's hard. Especially that I wasn't there. And I know how hard it's going to be telling people face to face. Because I don't want everyone knowing how upset I am yet it's very hard to look someone in the eye and tell them without letting the know I'm not happy about it.
Yep, they're on their own now.
I talked to DD last night and congratulated her. She knows that in my heart I don't really mean it but she thanked me. And then she went on talking about work and a friend of hers who is sick and talked like nothing was different.
I told her that when she has time she can come up here and I'll take her shopping for kitchen stuff and that will be my wedding gift to her. She said "that's not really necessary, I don't need to give her a gift."
She said that she was going to call today to talk to DH so that she could tell him. First of all, I doubt she calls. She's scared. And secondly, as bad as my attitude has been about this - DH is worse - and as they say "this is the straw that broke the camel's back."
I don't know if he will even talk to her when she calls. I don't know if he'll ever get over this with her. 
Thanks Kathy!!
