I have been tryng something newLyn5 said:I always feel bad for you that you can't go back to bed...but I do enjoy the company
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when the DIS locks up at 3 or so I go try to go back to sleep
the last few nights it has worked
i used to feel bad cause my kids were on there own at night
I mean they know they can always come get me if they need something but
i felt bad anyway and used to try to stay up
but around 8 they both have differetn shows they like watching and Jess likes to go in her room to read and draw so normally by 8 I would be sitting in the living room by myself
DH would be headed to bed
Erica watching cartoons in her room and Jess in her room
finally i was like Why am i up???
so now i go to bed to
the girls say they love it that i trust them enough to let them go to bed on there own
and most nights they are asleep long before i would have told them they had be
so i know not conventional but works for us
