My DD's were born almost a year apart but both were 4 on the school cut-off date so they both started pre-K this year. I asked that they be put into separate classrooms. I really debated this issue but decided that as nice as it was for them to have a special person with them all the time, it was more important they make their own way.
DH and I dropped them off and went back and forth between their classrooms to get them settled and to say good-bye. I looked at DD5 to see crocodile tears streaming down her face - that silent cry that tears your heart out. Both girls have gone to a home day care since they were babies, but I think the newness and excitement got the best of Hannah. We got started to do a puzzle and she was o.k.
We kissed them good-bye. When I went to pick them up DD4 didn't want to leave. The teachers said they both did great - no trouble at all wanting to be with their sister. They get to play together every day on the playground so they do see each other. DH told the girls to watch out for one another on the playground. Emily told us she took good care of Hannah.
Wednesday was fine, but then Thursday Emily said she wanted to come with me. She wasn't uspet, just didn't want to stay. I tried to get her involved with a game, but she insisted. The teacher's aide saw my struggle and came to play the game with Emily. She was fine then. She catches on quickly, though, I hope she doesn't pull this every day to get extra attention from the teacher.
The school doesn't provide transportation to pre-K, so next week we will be car pooling with another little girl and her parents. It will be interesting to see how they do with someone else dropping them off.
Thanks for giving me a chance to share this. I am so excited for both my girls.
Denae