The kids meals are about the size of most restaurants, so it would be roughly the perfect amount for an older kid. The adult portions however include large appetizers, entrees and desserts. You will have plenty to share with someone else. If any of your kids are adventurous, I would say you share with that kid(s), and let the more picky one(s) have the kids meal. Your older kid can give some food to the younger ones if he is willing to eat some of yours. If none of your kids like more adult fare, then order two kids meals (one for the older kid and one for the younger kids). The younger ones may have food leftover, but at least your older one should get his fill. You would have to pay for one kids meal in that scenario, but the waitstaff is good about splitting checks between non-dining plan items and items on the dining plan. I have never had a table service meal on the deluxe dining plan without having a lot of food leftover, so I always suggest sharing when possible.