Karma :)!!! I love it. My ex got his!

[JerseyJanice]

This woman has kidnapped my child from school! She has left him unattended in a school parking lot 3 doors from a child molestor and the teachers reported it to me

There are a lot of holes in your story, OP, but this part of it has me really scratchin' my head.

Why did your son's school allow her to take your son? And then the teachers watched them hang around the parking lot for 3 hours? They told you about it instead of asking them to come back inside?

And how does a convicted child molestor get to live 3 doors down from a school?

 

[laura001]

Another poster pointed out that battered and abused women sometimes have the overwhelming need to be validated and understood. She has been through a lot with her ex and is in a great deal of pain. Many people are telling her she needs to get over it, but I'd bet that the bashing she is getting on this thread is taking her in the opposite direction and making her pain much larger. She is posting information that she shouldn't post; that ought to be a clue how desperate she is in her pain. Many of you have talked about Karma, yet in laughing at her pain, are you not creating your own bad Karma as well? While I agree that her actions are not "right" I also wish people would point it out in a more compassionate way. She’s in trouble inside her heart right now and it just seems to me that instead of knocking her down even more that we could offer constructive criticism instead of piling on sarcasm and guilt. That would be truly good Karma.

Very well said!!! This is completely out of control! The OP must be feeling awful right about now. Let's hope someone shuts down this thread and removes the name of the teacher.

 

[ChrisnSteph]

Very well said!!! This is completely out of control! The OP must be feeling awful right about now. Let's hope someone shuts down this thread and removes the name of the teacher.

If she felt that bad she'd have edited her post already to remove the name of the teacher. We've only heard her side of the story - I'm sure there's a lot more to it. Frankly, if you don't want to have the opinions of others, whether it's positive or negative, you should keep details of your personal problems off public message boards.

 

[LoraJ]

Very well said!!! This is completely out of control! The OP must be feeling awful right about now. Let's hope someone shuts down this thread and removes the name of the teacher.

Believe me, I feel really bad for her. I just find it very wrong to post someone's personal information.

 

[Obi-Wan Pinobi]

It is NEVER acceptable to post personal information about a third party such as their names and places of employment.

The previously posted information has been removed.

Thank you

 

[Magickndm]

Very well said!!! This is completely out of control! The OP must be feeling awful right about now. Let's hope someone shuts down this thread and removes the name of the teacher.

The OP could remove the teacher's name.
My SIL is a 2nd grade teacher and I know she'd be very upset if her info was out on a board like this.

 

[laura001]

If she felt that bad she'd have edited her post already to remove the name of the teacher. We've only heard her side of the story - I'm sure there's a lot more to it. Frankly, if you don't want to have the opinions of others, whether it's positive or negative, you should keep details of your personal problems off public message boards.

I don't agree with the fact that the OP put personal info etc. on here....that is so wrong. Somehow I do feel however that there is more going on than anyone would know, right or wrong. I do however feel that she seems to be exhibiting some strange behavior and seems to be feeling some very strong feelings etc, so some compassion (different from critisism) and good karma may be in order, that is all. It seems she is very unhappy.

 

[Lyn5]

It is NEVER acceptable to post personal information about a third party such as their names and places of employment.

The previously posted information has been removed.

Thank you

Thank you...you are super quick

 

[laura001]

It is NEVER acceptable to post personal information about a third party such as their names and places of employment.

The previously posted information has been removed.

Thank you

Thank-you

 

[Stacerita]

Karma is a boomarang.

 

[phorsenuf]

I think the whole thing is really sad. It sounds like the dad wants to be involved in his sons life and the new wife was making an effort by bringing in food. When she said she was a lawyer to the teacher maybe somehow she was saying it as a way to say she is trustworthy and not necessarily throwing it in the teachers face,
There are alot of strange things within all the OP's posts, but it all seems to come down to the fact that she hates her ex and wants nothing but bad things for him and his new wife.
I can just imagine how the poor boy feels.

I also can't imagine a school would leave a child outside for 3 hours or allow a chold to be kidnapped. I would assume if someone unauthorized picked up the child the police would be called, but then again, why would the school even let them take him in the first place?

Funny story- My DH always grew a beard in the winter, come spring he would shave it off. Well the day he shaved it off he went to pick our DS up from day care and my son freaked when he saw him! He didn't recognize him without the beard. The school wasn't going to let my DH bring him home because my son kept saying that's not my daddy! We laugh about it now, but that was good on the schools part!

 

[Beth76]

Thank you...you are super quick

Not really. It was up there for over an hour.

 

[Obi-Wan Pinobi]

Not really. It was up there for over an hour.

Sorry. The moderators and webmasters have day jobs to pay the bills and sometimes there isn't someone here to read every single thing posted the minute it goes up.

 

[mytwotinks]

I have a real question for the OP. If your ex made enough $$ for you to have save so much, why is he paying you so little in child support? You said that you didn't get it for the 2 years of your divorce (because of your horrible lawyer) and that amounted to $17,000 that you lost out on. That doesn't seem like much $$ for people who are making the salaries that it would take to save $700,000 by the time you are 30 years old.

I get your frustration, but I think that your energy would be better spent working to make your son's life more stable. This isn't my response to your first post though. That I got, it's just the more you posted the more bitter and angry you sounded. If you really were moving on and just having a little giggle, that would be one thing, but you really seem to be drowning in anger.

 

[phorsenuf]

Sorry. The moderators and webmasters have day jobs to pay the bills and sometimes there isn't someone here to read every single thing posted the minute it goes up.

What do you mean you have a day Job! Shame on you! You mods should have to be pathetic like me where I spend hours on these boards a day, read, post, refresh, refresh, refresh, post, refresh, refresh.....
Shame...shame!

 

[Obi-Wan Pinobi]

What do you mean you have a day Job! Shame on you! You mods should have to be pathetic like me where I spend hours on these boards a day, read, post, refresh, refresh, refresh, post, refresh, refresh.....
Shame...shame!

Yeah, well blame my mom. She got me accustomed to that whole "eating and living under a roof" thing which costs so much.

 

[azgal81]

Wow is this thread for real???? It seems like the OP is stretching the truth everything just seems to off the wall for me to believe. To the OP get over yourself for your sons sake at least.

 

[phorsenuf]

Yeah, well blame my mom. She got me accustomed to that whole "eating and living under a roof" thing which costs so much.

Hmmm...maybe you could start on a thread on that.....
Did she make you do school work on vacation too????

 

[Obi-Wan Pinobi]

Hmmm...maybe you could start on a thread on that.....
Did she make you do school work on vacation too????

Actually, much to my DW's dismay, I was a spoiled child. All my free time was spent playing and having fun. Not sure why that doesn't continue to hold true at 40 but DW keeps introducing me to these things called chores. I'm not sure I like the sounds of this.

 

[mickeymousemom]

Wow. What a story. Everything seems so whacky to me. Unless I missed it the OP never did answer the question of how her and/or her DH(ex) got over 3/4 of a million dollars. I'm also having trouble believing that she was SOL legally/financially. First of all, if your attorney isn't working for you, then get another one. I've been thru a rinky dink easy divorce, but even I know that. I would also think there would be some kind of order from the judge that the ex had to show where this money was and fork over some of it. The thing about getting away with ONE of the houses and ONE of the cars makes me . How easy.

If any of this is true, then the OP truly needs to take a look in the mirror here. She wants to blame the others for making things bad for her son, yet it seems she's doing everything she can to help them out. I feel incredibly sorry for this boy. If the ex and his new wife are being abusive in any way, then it needs to be reported to CPS immediately. If that happened here, they'd be at the front door of that house ASAP. I could go on and on, but something about this whole story seems goofy to me.

OP---get on with your life, be good to your son and try to make a solid attempt at letting him get to know his father. If there is abuse then report it, get another attorney ASAP and try to get visitation rights removed.

It's not right to wish others harm. Regardless of what they've done. As someone here stated....Karma is a boomerang.