Karma :)!!! I love it. My ex got his!

[Pugdog007]

OP you seem to be answering many questions - why not the one we've been asking - WHERE did the money come from?

You want us to believe you were contributing to a savings account that didn't even have your name on it?

 

[ChrisK]

Did you call the BAR association to tell them that a lawyer was a helping a client hide assets in a divorce proceeding. I don't think they'd be to happy to hear that and the fact they were romantcally involved.

I didn't get once, from this story made of swiss cheese, that he was a client of his now, new wife. I now have a headache from smashing my head in to a wall. Thanks OP. I hope for the sake of your son, co-workers and the people on DIS, that you can move on from this horrible situation in your life and use it to make you stronger and not get burnt again. Enjoy your 'new' life.

 

[lindakmonty]

OP you seem to be answering many questions - why not the one we've been asking - WHERE did the money come from?

You want us to believe you were contributing to a savings account that didn't even have your name on it?

yeah, I did...unless "server was too busy" and it didn't post.

I wrote saying that we both worked in telecommunications...well, we still do. I just don't travel all over the US anymore since ds was born. He still does. He's in NJ right now. Starting when I was 19 I made $22 per hour and you get $60 a day tax free per diem... that adds up quick. When you work 12 hrs a day sometimes 7 days a week... that is a lot of money!! We had an RV that we paid a whole $300 a month to park... so, I was sending checks to Charles Schwab for at least 5k a month! We worked together... we were together literally 24/7 for the first 4 or 5 years!! He traded stocks left and right. I know we made most of it in the stock market on JDSU, QCOMM, FON, AOL,LU,YAHOO...we had rental properties... I'm 29, he is 42... but he only had 60k in an IRA and maybe 20k in this Charles Schwab acct. when we met...so I totally trusted this man and truly thought we'd be together forever. He had already been married, had a child that is now 14 whom he hasn't seen in the last 10 years. He says she won't let him, but when you pay child support... you have that right. He just doesn't want to. He didn't my ds either until this woman came in the picture last Aug. they were married in DEC!

I did report her and both of my attorneys, maybe she did get in trouble and folded up shop? I don't know... I don't know what they do in that situation. I know his mom wants to call childrens services on them as well... but as long as he's working out of state I don't need to worry.

It wasn't worth worrying about our lives for... I can always make more $! I am salary... I have one duplex now, and dh had his house that we all live in now. We keep all $ separate!!! I'm starting to rebuild our lives... but the only thing that has ever been important is my DS!!! That is the reason I left him and tried to get him away in the first place!

yes, his parents probably gave us 10k in "gifts" through those years.

 

[Miss Jasmine]

He had already been married, had a child that is now 14 whom he hasn't seen in the last 10 years. He says she won't let him, but when you pay child support... you have that right. He just doesn't want to. He didn't my ds either until this woman came in the picture last Aug. they were married in DEC!

Support and visitation are two seperate issues. Even if he was behind in support he still has a right to see his child. You don't know that he doesn't want to see his son, maybe his son doesn't want to see him. And maybe he doesn't want to go to court and make a stink over it thinking it could further damage their relationship.

You are making a lot of assumptions.

 

[ChrisnSteph]

yeah, I did...unless "server was too busy" and it didn't post.

I wrote saying that we both worked in telecommunications...well, we still do. I just don't travel all over the US anymore since ds was born. He still does. He's in NJ right now. Starting when I was 19 I made $22 per hour and you get $60 a day tax free per diem... that adds up quick. When you work 12 hrs a day sometimes 7 days a week... that is a lot of money!! We had an RV that we paid a whole $300 a month to park... so, I was sending checks to Charles Schwab for at least 5k a month! We worked together... we were together literally 24/7 for the first 4 or 5 years!! He traded stocks left and right. I know we made most of it in the stock market on JDSU, QCOMM, FON, AOL,LU,YAHOO...we had rental properties... I'm 29, he is 42... but he only had 60k in an IRA and maybe 20k in this Charles Schwab acct. when we met...so I totally trusted this man and truly thought we'd be together forever. He had already been married, had a child that is now 14 whom he hasn't seen in the last 10 years. He says she won't let him, but when you pay child support... you have that right. He just doesn't want to. He didn't my ds either until this woman came in the picture last Aug. they were married in DEC!

I did report her and both of my attorneys, maybe she did get in trouble and folded up shop? I don't know... I don't know what they do in that situation. I know his mom wants to call childrens services on them as well... but as long as he's working out of state I don't need to worry.

It wasn't worth worrying about our lives for... I can always make more $! I am salary... I have one duplex now, and dh had his house that we all live in now. We keep all $ separate!!! I'm starting to rebuild our lives... but the only thing that has ever been important is my DS!!! That is the reason I left him and tried to get him away in the first place!

yes, his parents probably gave us 10k in "gifts" through those years.

So you you made $22 an hour, plus $60 a day tax free per diem. So that's $264 a day, before taxes, plus $60. For some reason I doubt that you worked 12 hours a day, seven days a week, at least not often. Why then would you need several houses and 6 cars? And you say you sent a check to CS for $5000 every month?

$324 a day - based on a 5 day workweek = $1620 per week.
$1620 X 4.3 weeks = $6966 (don't forget to subtract from this amount any income taxes)

So let's say you made roughly $6966 a month, and you sent a check to CS for $5000 every month. (That would be $60K per year, btw) Now your left with $1966, which is acutally a lot lower because I haven't deducted any income tax on your wages. So you mean to say that you guys still had money left over for numerous houses and 6 vehicles? Where did all his money go? What did your ex contribute, since you said that most of the time you brought more money home than he did? And if you did put $60K a year, for how long? How long were you married? Let's say you did this for seven years, then you still only have $420K....so is it safe to assume that well over half the money in the hidden account belongs to him? And if you were really contributing that much, don't you have receipts, check stubs, account numbers to prove where you were sending the money to? Any reasonable person would have that information. How can he just hide the money, like that? Either your lawer was beyond awful, or there is alot more to the story.

As for him not seeing his other child for 10 years, well why is that an issue now? It certainly wasn't an issue when you were together.

There has to be so much more to this story, because it doesn't make any sense. Just let it go. You have a new life, and apparently so does your ex. Move on.

 

[sugarpie]

The original subject of this thread was Karma, wasn't it? I guess I'm not sure anymore.

The OP had a marriage that ended badly, as many do, and doesn't seem to have been able to let go of the bitterness about it. OP - I would hope for the sake of your little boy, that you would consider some counseling. His father may be a jerk, his wife may be a witch, but you need to do what's in your son's best interest. It doesn't sound like you're able to see what that is.

As for the Karma - it's understandable to feel a little happiness when someone who has hurt you is hurting, but don't let that feeling turn into gloating. Let it go, it will eat you up inside. Karma means whatever you give out, you will get back. Give out negative energy, get back negative energy, bad things will happen. Put out positive energy, get back positive energy, good things will happen. There's lots of negative energy being put out by the OP.

 

[ChrisnSteph]

To the OP -

This is in response to a PM you sent me, I wasn't able to respond due to "server busy" issues.

You're right - I know absolutely nothing about the stocks business, rental properties or investing, so my information in my previous post is probably way off. However, you claim to have this knowledge. Well any smart person wouldn't haven't invested thousands of dollars of money into an investment account that didn't have her name on it, and then whine about how it all disappeared. Sorry if you think that I'm "preaching" to you - I simply think your story doesn't make any sense. You want useful advice? Hire a real attorney, and go after your ex, since supposedly he has thousands of dollars "hidden" somewhere, plus several houses and at least 5 cars.

 

[lindakmonty]

To the OP -

This is in response to a PM you sent me, I wasn't able to respond due to "server busy" issues.

You're right - I know absolutely nothing about the stocks business, rental properties or investing, so my information in my previous post is probably way off. However, you claim to have this knowledge. Well any smart person wouldn't haven't invested thousands of dollars of money into an investment account that didn't have her name on it, and then whine about how it all disappeared. Sorry if you think that I'm "preaching" to you - I simply think your story doesn't make any sense. You want useful advice? Hire a real attorney, and go after your ex, since supposedly he has thousands of dollars "hidden" somewhere, plus several houses and at least 5 cars.

Like I said ,don't judge until you've been there. And you just may be there someday! You don't know anything about laws or divorce. Once your divorce is final, its final. property and vehicles.... its done with, you don't go back and say...hey wait... I'm not whining about anything. I only put anything financial to show they wouldn't be "hurting" financially. He wanted everything, he got it... its not worth your life. NO I don't want advice from you. I didn't ask for any advice at all. I am just fine, so is my child... I am just happy they're getting what they deserve!

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Total Proceeds From Broker Transactions (Less Commissions) $ 761,802.02 ________________
Total Federal Income Tax Withheld $ 0.00
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and to those that keep saying its not real.... yeah, afraid so...

And thank you to everyone that keeps sending me pm's of support, yes he is getting what he deserves!

 

[grimley1968]

OP, have you ever heard the over-used phrase "Too much information"?

We don't want, and especially don't need, to see your financial statement. You've already given us the value earlier, to the penny. Why do we need this now?

At least you had the sense to blank out your SS#.

Also, this a 1999 report. Many, many people, including me, lost a lot of money in the dot-com crash after that. A 1999 financial statement is practically useless in 2006.

But I won't get further into specifics, since this has gotten ridiculous.

OP, please try to lose some of your anger and move on with life. As I said earlier, the best revenge is living well.

 

[sajetto]

Oh Good God OP! Please erase that kind of information, it has all of the transaction numbers

For a little while I was taking pity, but this is just getting pathetic and its about time for this thread to be closed. Please take what little dignity you have left and move on, this is only hurting you.

 

[lindakmonty]

Oh Good God OP! Please erase that kind of information, it has all of the transaction numbers

For a little while I was taking pity, but this is just getting pathetic and its about time for this thread to be closed. Please take what little dignity you have left and move on, this is only hurting you.

Then oh good god, quit saying I'm lying! I have NO reason to lie about something so stupid and a transation # doesn't mean squat. I took his name, address and ss# off. Besides, this acct. is no longer open. Dont call me a liar and then cry when you see the proof! It doesn't go both ways. You all are making judgments about things you KNOW NOTHING ABOUT.

 

[grimley1968]

You all are making judgments about things you KNOW NOTHING ABOUT.

Maybe we are, because you can't seem to fill in the holes in your stories. I've tried to be sympathetic, honestly, but you seem to be self-destructive, and far worse, destructive in your relationship with your son by being so vengeful.

I really wish I DID know less about this situation than I do, albeit with all the holes and oddities in your story. It makes me so sad for your child. Please stop posting in this thread, and let it die and be out of its misery.

Please move on with your life, let go of your anger, live well and take care of that boy, and let this thread die.

 

[Beth76]

 

[sajetto]

There are a lot of things I could say, but I won't.


You are really desperate to make your "point" Rather than focusing on things you can't change just move on with your life. I've seen you on the weddings board before, so why don't you just focus on planning your wedding and settling down with the new man in your life?

 

[Miss Jasmine]

Look, enough is enough. This is waaaaay past ridiculous. OP I hope you are seeking some professional help to assist you with getting past this part of your life. I am being serious. What you are doing and holding onto is not healthy.

 

[Missy1961]

First you post a teacher's name, now the statement. Time to move on.

 

[ChrisnSteph]

Lindakmonty:

Stop PM'ing me, stop sending me personal emails. Big whoop, you've got an old account statement. You don't need to send it to me via rude personal email. This whole thing is disturbing, the lengths you are going. Please ask the mods to close this thread.

 

[minkydog]

OMG and now she's getting RE-married? Misery must love company

 

[RitaZ.]

 

[Beth76]

I thought she was already remarried. Didn't she refer to him as DH?