If you're willing to stand in the back several feet behind he crowd, you can generally get a good look at everything and not wait a minute for the parade.
That's what I now do. I seldom sit and wait for a parade. Maybe every 4 or 5 years. Now, I just walk along and stop if I see something I want to watch in the parade.
For those who get there early and manage to get right at the curb, do you remain standing? There is only so many "first row" spots for the parade so it stands to reason that you will be standing in front of a child/children. I'm not much of a parade person, but if I were and I landed a front row spot, I'd sit.
Also if I'm watching a parade (or some other type of Disney street show), I will move to the side if I notice a child trying to see past me.
That's all well and good. But in my case, I asked a CM where the best, unobtrusive spot for me to stand would be. I was told to stand in a particular spot....it was in an area where the rope ended, with a small walkway allowed for access. The CM told me it would be the best place to stand since there wouldn't be anyone next to me or behind me since the rope tended to curve inward. Then, just prior to the parade starting the mother with that stroller came along, stood behind me, pushing the rope over. Then, she started complaining that she couldn't see past me. So, my dd and I squished way over to the side so that she could see past us. Not good enough. Now, her child, sleeping in the stroller still couldn't see. So, she moaned and groaned to a different CM. I was then 'asked' to please sit down. I was having an issue with my knees and hip at that point, which is why I didn't sit down and had looked for a spot that I could stand. So, now? I'm squished into a very small area, practically crippled when I got up, and that child who 'had' to see??? Never woke up.
Yes, I could have chosen a spot behind everyone else, but this was going to be my last party parade with my dd for a very long time...so wanted a good spot, and hence the asking the CM. So, I was told one thing by one CM but another by a different CM. And why? Because someone was really rude and entitled and I chose not to be argumentative.
So...no more parades for me. I'll leave that to the entitled parents. I'll go ride stuff with the shorter lines.
I've taken spots in the rear, standing up (uncomfortably I might add) holding onto a column or such, in order to get some decent photos. Only to have some jerk come along, taller than me, who then leans way out with his camera....thereby making it impossible for me to get the shots I wanted without his camera in my photo.