Lisa, don't feel selfish for wishing you were in the video, you are the mother of the bride! He definitely should have asked someone since he didn't know who you are.
Thank you so much for posting that chat. I am glad to hear the AOA will not be sharing buses with POP, as that was something I was worried about. I love that POP has it's own buses (though I do wish the lines were covered instead of just the walkway behind the lines) and will stay that way.
About the dates for Fantasyland, I follow the Expansion thread, and the latest info from Disney (which was last week) is that Storybook Circus will be open Spring 2012, Ariel/Belle will be open by Thanksgiving 2012 (they hope) and Snow White Mine Train won't be open until Spring 2014 at the earliest. This is all from Disney Imagineers at
D23.
Here is the link for the Official Fantasyland Expansion thread, with the best and most current info:
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=2622159