I know this place! Went on a really awkward date there once!
As a local, and married to a Texan who hates all seafood, I rarely go to any of the waterfront places... just too pricey (and he whines the whole time about the "fishy" smell while he eats his kajillion dollar steak...) I also don't eat crabcakes

Those are for tourists (and you'll never convince me that soft-shell crabs are anything other than a cruel joke we made up to torture tourists!) So, I'll bring a bushel of steamed crabs and teach y'all how to eat them... but we'll go down on the lawn, too messy for the deck! I love watching people's faces when they hear the shells rip open for the first time, and then you tell them they have to scoop the guts out! Always hilarious, even if they end up enjoying it in the end, which is kind of a 50/50 thing...
However, I *have* pinned a recipe for "poor man's crabcakes" which is basically a zucchini fritter made with old bay seasoning... Going to try that soon when my squash start coming in and I'll give you guys a review!
Remember the crock pot is your friend! And give yourself some wiggle room for drive-thru...the Wendy's Strawberry salad with grill chicken is reasonable nutrition-wise, and super yummy! Home-bbq chicken chilled and packed in a cooler with watermelon! Anything else you can think of that is good cold... it will be hot sitting out there at those games. Remember your water and sunscreen!
And speaking of water... yeah yesterday I totally blew it... gonna have to start over tomorrow. In my defense, I *DID* pack bottled water for myself and my crew for our beach day yesterday, but in all the confusion, everybody else drank it! Yeah, gatherings with my family are always a bit of a cluster. Once of my nieces showed up late after the park was at capacity... AND she had the paper plates (clever me, I brought my own little picnic set, but it's for 4, not 10...) In the end, I was able to rent a campsite that was a last-minute cancellation, and then they HAD to let her into the park, and that section of the island is less crowded. So it all worked out, except that while I was working it out, I wasn't there defending my cooler, and not only did all my water get ganked, but someone (Sis!) put stuff back in a weird way all the food I brought got ruined...
So my self-care for today is a day off. From everything. We got drive-thru fried chicken on the way home from the beach, and just had the last of it cold for brunch. Not sorry! In order to get the campground yesterday, I had to rent it for 2 nights, so I may-or-may not go back there today/tonight... no decision yet. It's the closest thing to options and spontaneity I've had since the lockdown, and I'm savoring having a choice!