jon and kate

[extremesoccermom]

Until you live with them you can not judge and have no way of knowing what is going on. The show is showing just a peek at their lives. I refuse to judge after being in a similar situation. Everyone thought our marriage was great we had been married for over 20 years but the last 10 were not fun and in hind sight totally not worth my time or effort.

 

[DMRick]

There is also plenty of property there, so they could easily build a guest cottage onsite for her to use when he is there, if she didn't want to be in the main house at the time.

Woold anyone really want to be on the same property as your ex husband? I assume they will both move on and have relationships, so that would be awkward, plus would the parent in charge that week, want to have the other parent hanging over and having to second guess everything you are doing, that it's good enough (and this is for either of them).

 

[princessmom29]

I would venture to say this cynicism about love is part of the reason that we have a 50% divorce rate in our country. My DH and I have been married for 10 years and take our for better or worse very seriously - I know no matter how bad things get - he and I are in this for the long haul and we will always find our way back to each other! He is my soulmate.

I totally agree. My husband and I ARE soulmates. He makes me a better person, and I cannot imagine my life without him in it. I fully believe that soulmates exist, and sometimes we just have to step back an realize that none of the little things we take so seriously are worth risking that relationship over. There is nothing that we have found the we disagree so fundamentally over that we need to have a knock down drag out over. Certianly not wether the kids have matching shoes, or if the need napkins. We discussed the big stuff early on and made our decisions and everything else in just not worth the blowup.

 

[mrsklamc]

Woold anyone really want to be on the same property as your ex husband? I assume they will both move on and have relationships, so that would be awkward, plus would the parent in charge that week, want to have the other parent hanging over and having to second guess everything you are doing, that it's good enough (and this is for either of them).

No, but I think that if his first priority was really his kids he could find somewhere to live in the same town. Or state.

 

[Laurie Disney]

I think it is ridiculous that TLC contines this show. Knowing that Jon & Kate have marital isssues, they should just cancel the show. I know they won't because of the ratings and that means more $$$$, and Kate is MONEY HUNGRY so she will continue to put these kids on tv while all this turmoil is happening as long as she has her celebrity lifestyle. I admit I used to DVR the show, but now I am disgusted of it and I am done. I am sick of all the free bees, trips that they get from the show. Those kids have traveled more than my kids will see in their childhood. Do her kids even know what hand me downs are??? No, they just know Gymboree and Gap hand me downs.(LOL) Kate, it's time to stop being greedy and let other families with multiples earn a living for their kids. (Table for 12) Jon & kate your 15 minutes of fame is OVER!!!!!

 

[Dancemom03]

I would venture to say this cynicism about love is part of the reason that we have a 50% divorce rate in our country. My DH and I have been married for 10 years and take our for better or worse very seriously - I know no matter how bad things get - he and I are in this for the long haul and we will always find our way back to each other! He is my soulmate.

Grown child of an especially nasty sixties-era divorce here... I've been married for thirty-three years now and I still believe in the term soul-mates too. People who don't probably haven't found theirs yet. You can't just marry the first person that looks good. Oh wait... I forgot... You can now b/c half of all marriages end in divorce so why should yours have to be for keeps.
Like Kate's vow renewal, too many times it's more about the party than the sacrament and what comes after. Even better if we can recite our own vows to eliminate that pesky term "better or worse" altogether...

 

[mrsklamc]

I've heard people are now saying 'for as long as we both shall love."

 

[mercydisney]

JOHN & KATE DATE W/....8.

 

[disneychrista]

I've heard people are now saying 'for as long as we both shall love."

Until we change our minds...

JOHN & KATE DATE W/....8.

LOL

 

[DVCBELLE]

JOHN & KATE DATE W/....8.

Oh - that's funny....


the other night Conan said "Hey all you single guys the screaming witch with 8 kids is available now...."

 

[mercydisney]

Oh - that's funny....


the other night Conan said "Hey all you single guys the screaming witch with 8 kids is available now...."

I can not take credit for this. BFF came over and she is really a low key person. We were discussing J&K, she doesn't watch the show and just knows what she reads on the tabloids and what is said on TV. She asks me really innocently so whats next for the show " John and Kate Date +8?

I couldn't stop , and had to post.

 

[mamalle]

very sad. we just watched the episode from last week...

9 year old dd said wow- why would he say he is excited? that is just wrong...

what is up with Jon's earrings? pretty early for a mid life crisis.. Im sorry but its just wrong acting like this..

 

[mizzoumom]

Kinda of sad what happens, but I guess the stress of tv and maybe not being ready to have that many kids that fast can take its toll .

 

[Grendalynn]

what is up with Jon's earrings? pretty early for a mid life crisis.. Im sorry but its just wrong acting like this..

I was thinking the exact same thing... His diamonds are bigger than mine are!! Thats just wrong!