I think Jon and Kate should get whatever freebies are offered that the network arranges. It's now the #1 show on TLC, so TLC is making big money off of them...so Jon and Kate should some, too. If an organic chef, cleaning people, babysitters and product placements are arranged by the network/producers, I'm completey fine with that. TLC has kind of made it hard for the family - the show is a success and they get things from it, BUT the appeal of the show is that they are just like everyone else, struggling to raise a family. So natually the would encourage them to try and "hide" certain things - we all tune in for the kids and the normal stuff, not to watch housekeepers cleaning. I think the show should just be honest, and maybe do some episodes about the family giving back. That was in the mission statement Jon and Kate drew up, about how they want to give back because they have been given so much.
Whatever is going on behind the scenes, I'm sure the truth will somehow come out eventually. Do I think "love offereings" should be taken at churches for the family? No. If it is true that Jodi and others were "denied" being paid by Kate, then I certainly wouldn't approve of that. Like I said, though, the truth will likely come out eventually. If that is Jodi's sister blogging, she's not helping the situation by airing everything publically.