That's because the producers make them do nasty things like drop the rejected person off a train in the middle of nowhere, or take them on a two-fer date and dump one in front of the other. But the fact is, the Bachelor/ettes DO go along with it, and they know what they're getting into.
I thought Jake was a nice guy, but he didn't do anything for me in the

department. Now, Reid...he was a cutie.