The extensive planning is a way of life here, so don't be shy. We LOVE to hear lots of details, ADRs, and anything else. Oh, and do you have a bin with stuff to take on your trip? Or maybe a binder? We LOVE that kind of stuff

Call me a squirrel I guess because I am NUTs with you
One bit of advice, though. Please don't try to be perfect. We're only human, and the best trip you can give your family will be one that is fun and full of love. I used to hate it when my mother planned out every day and every minute of vacation - the best times I had was when I went with my uncle and aunt who were more easy-going. You may not realize you're stressing out your family when you try to show them the "perfect" time. Okay, off my soapbox now.