First of all, you should not feel weird about dreaming of WDW in the dairy section of the grocery store. Doesn't everyone do that?
LOL You guys realy know how to make a girl feel better!!
Second, as much as I would
love to brave the snow and the cold to teach your son, I can't.
OK...all is forgiven!
Third, I think this teacher is taking her frustrations with you and your husband out on your child. This is never a good thing. No matter how many years you spend as a teacher, you can never let the feelings towards parents cloud your opinions of your students. Not saying hello to Poot in the meeting is really telling.

Now that you have had the meeting, I would write a very carefully worded letter to the counselor with a carbon copy to the principal stating what you feel was the outcome of the meeting and some of your concerns. To be honest, if it were me, I would ask if there was a grouping committee that you could appeal to and have your son moved. Early childhood years are very important and if a teacher ruins it now, it will be gone forever. I need to say here, that this may be an excellent teacher, I don't know, but even in the best of conditions sometimes people don't like each other (I'm speaking from both sides) and there is nothing that can be done.
I don't know why she is frustrated with us...other than the fact that we are keeping on top of his situation. But, either way, she is upset about something. I am keeping an open mind about it and giving things until conferneces in November. After that, if nothing has changed, I will see about having him moved.
About the knowing stuff at home and not at school, though--I see this a lot. The real test to learning something is whether or not the knowledge transfers to another location. Kids can know something at home and not transfer it to another place (environment or subject). Mastery occurs when a child can transfer. I think Poot has come close to mastery of a lot of things, but at the same time is not quite there.
I know he is a bright child and will get it. I just think he will do it on his terms! It will all work out in the end...it has to!
Feel free to email me--I think you have my email address or you can pm me for it. If I can help you write a letter or give you some good websites with materials, I will. One of the best is
www.readinga-z.com. The website has hundreds of books and resources. The cost I think is $85 a year, but that cost is well worth it! I've used it in my classroom and with my children.