TarzansKat
Not all treasure is silver and gold, mate.
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Yikes on the grandmother! 

She recently was remarried and I am so tempted to post the picture of her and new husband. They look like Mayor and Mrs. Mayor of Munchkinville.Yikes on the grandmother!![]()
She recently was remarried and I am so tempted to post the picture of her and new husband. They look like Mayor and Mrs. Mayor of Munchkinville.It's okay, I have come to terms with her. DF's grammy on the other hand
She is adorable. She lives with her two sisters and we call them "The Ladies". They are three cute Italian women who are the way grandmothers should be!
Awww, adorable. My mom and Aunt love DF's grandmother, they want to go live with her. DF's Great Grandmother didn't speak English and they all like to laugh about how when they were little they would have to help feed her and say one Italian word, I can't remember to get her to open her mouth to eat. She looked so sweet. DF will say the word if I am not eating to his standards.Awww...Italian grandmas! We just went to see DH's this past weekend, because she's not doing so well, but is she as sweet as ever. Doesn't speak a word of English, so DH has to translate for me. Even with everything she has going on, she still asks me how my parents are.![]()
Awww, adorable. My mom and Aunt love DF's grandmother, they want to go live with her. DF's Great Grandmother didn't speak English and they all like to laugh about how when they were little they would have to help feed her and say one Italian word, I can't remember to get her to open her mouth to eat. She looked so sweet. DF will say the word if I am not eating to his standards.![]()
Thanks! They are my fur-babies!Hey! I just love those cat pics!!They are so cute!
That's so sweet! You know, yesterday, I asked DS if I could have a taste of his yogurt. When he went to put the spoon in my mouth, he opened his mouth and said ah, like you do with a baby! It was too funny.![]()
The Great Movie Ride --- Love it.
Celebrity Hand Prints --- I hear they have Johnny Depp's but they aren't always out. Why the heck not!?
Star Tours
Muppet Vision 3-D --- I love me some muppets.
[Voyage of the Little Mermaid --- Have I ever told you that as a little girl I would cry at the end of Little Mermaid?
Awww...Italian grandmas!...Doesn't speak a word of English
I don't do teacups. Bleck.Sometimes this one (and Body Wars (RIP) makes me want to ZZUB. We won't even discuss the teacups.
DF loves to talk about all those "Disney Urban Legends", basically to just drive me crazy. I have never actually seen The Little Mermaid mishap but have heard about it....a lot.Did I ever tell you I have one of the VHS copies of The Little Mermaid in the original packaging that had a little brush of "male anatomy" on the front?
BF pointed it out to me.
Boys will be boys.
Read away, you are here in spirit even without your comments.Just dropping by to say hi and let you know that while I may not be commenting (how I wish I could), I am still reading everything!
So I have just finally had a chance to start reading your report and I can't wait to read more! Wish I had more time to actually engage in discussion, haha.
Offense #1 MIL was appalled that DF and I would be paying for this wedding ourselves. My parents had paid for the first (small wedding & honeymoon) and I wanted to pay for this myself. I'm no beggar! She made comments about their lack of financial involvement until DF finally told her to shush. Then she apologized in an awkward moment I care not to re-live.
Offense #2 I am wearing a pair of my grandmother's vintage earrings on the wedding day. She died when I was 13 and it was important to me to have a piece of her with me. They are pink rhinestones, a little large but so my grandmother and me. MIL exclaimed, "Those are gaudy" after I showed them to her. Let me just say people I had told her they were my grandmother's. I am still upset about this and have a hard time letting go, since as I was telling her the story of how I remembered my grandmother showing me these earrings as a little girl in her jewelry box I was teary eyed and telling her just how much it meant for me to wear them.
Offense #3 She is constantly comparing our wedding to all of the families wedding that have come before and will be coming this fall. I am tired of it.
Offense #4 I am constantly hearing how we will regret not having a large wedding, and WHY can't we have dancing!?! Ugh.
Offense #5 She thought our food choices were too high in calories. Could you please tell me who thinks of their calorie intake on their wedding day? Before the big day I understand but pul-lease!
Offense #6 She wanted to wear black to the wedding, our garden wedding that is being held at noon mind you.
Offense #7 DF has seen the design of my dress, he has also seen pictures of me in it, because if I trust anyone's opinion it is his. As he so lovingly said to me yesterday when I came home from work yesterday, "Did you wear your hair like that all day?"I don't believe in that hocus pocus, maybe I'm jaded but I don't care. My marriage won't survive because he didn't see me in the stinkin' dress. This troubles MIL greatly, she thinks we are doomed. She was showing me the non-black dress she got instead and when DF walked into the room she yelped, covered her dress and made him cover his eyes. Newsflash...you aren't the bride!
Welcome!Hoo boy. I know you posted about this some time ago, but let me just say it sounds like you're handling your FMIL with a massive amount of grace, considering what she's putting you through. And hello! I'm trying to get through your PTR, but work keeps intruding. Wanted to check in, though.![]()