So after we cut the cake we had our second "first dance" hee, hee. I know it's crazy that we had two but we were trying to combine his Hispanic culture with my "white girl" culture. So we decided we would do our very first dance to a song of his choosing and then after the first band break we would do a second first dance with a song of my choosing. Marriage is all about compromise right?
The song I chose was George Strait's "Cross My Heart."
I absolutely love this song, to me it's such a classic love song. My favorite line is the one that says "you will always be the miracle that makes my life complete." I know it's incredibly cliche, but we really are two halves combined as a whole. Our "theme" for the wedding was "Two hearts united as one" and I believe it with everything in me. We just fit together. I am peppy and outgoing, he is a little more shy and laidback, he is athletic I am...well not

, I am organized and an over planner, he is cluttered and lives in the moment...it all just works!!!
Following our final first dance

we were once again joined on the dance floor by all our family and friends. I don't think we left the dance floor a single time all night, we used the second band break to mingle with everyone, but other than that we were dancing maniacs!!
Somewhere in the middle of us shakin our money makers, we did the bouquet toss
Is it mean that I was slightly sad that I didn't actually know the person who caught my bouquet???

I mean it was an invited guest, a family friend, just not one that I knew
Then we did the garter toss
Sometime after that his family decided to do the "kidnapping of the bride." Now, I had never heard of this until I moved to NM but apparently everyone does it here. Maybe I was in the country too long, but for anyone else who may not know...basically a couple of people "steal" the bride and take her to a secluded location and the groom has to take up ransom to get her back. I was actually really not wanting to do this before the wedding and actually threatened to beat whoever tried to steal me with my high heel

Well, the only second the whole night that Candi wasn't by my side (I figured it was wrong to follow him into the restroom

) I was wisked away before I knew what had happened to me. They were, however, sweet enough to do it during the beginning of the band's second break so that I wouldn't miss any of the band playing, which I really appreciated. I was only torn away from my wedding for about 15 minutes and in the end it was pretty fun. Candi even sang to collect money...now that's love...the boy can play instruments like there's no tomorrow but....well let's just say people may have paid more for him to quit singing than to get me back
Like I said earlier we spent the remainder of the break mingling with our guests. Then the finally set started with La Marcha (a wedding march). This is a super fun tradition that I was not going to miss out on. For anybody who's confused (no worries, my whole family was

). You pick a couple to lead the whole thing, behind them is the Bride and Groom followed by the wedding party, then the parents and grandparents and then anybody else who wants to join in. All the guys are on one side and all the girls on the other. It starts out with you dancing along as a couple, pretty much in a "follow the leader" sort of way like this:
Along the way you just have a good time, dancing around the whole ballroom and waving and laughing and just having a good time
Then at a certain point the lead couple starts to form a "bridge" of sorts and one by one the couples go under and continue the "bridge" like this
As people go under you can do a "london bridge is falling down" and trap them like this
After the last person goes under then the first person goes under the long windy bridge and pretty much everyone traps the Bride and Groom along the way. You then make a big circle all holding hands and over time the Bride and Groom are in the center of the circle dancing together with all their friends and family surrounding them. It is super fun!!!!
Now, we were not planning on doing the dollar dance since the Kidnapping of the Bride took place but all of a sudden at the end of La Marcha everybody started pulling out dollar bills. We couldn't deny our guests of their wishes could we?
So we immediately went into the dollar dance
I am really glad we did it, not because of the money, but because it gave us a chance to talk to almost all of our guests.
Following the dollar dance the band played a few more songs. The last song they played was my favorite Tobias Rene song which Candi asked them to dedicate to me and then it was all over and of course I started to tear up a little bit
After saying goodbye to all of our guests we went up to our room (we got the honeymoon suite for free for booking our wedding with them

). There was champagne and strawberries waiting for us which I enjoyed while taking a bubble bath
And They Lived Happily Ever After...
So, that brings us full circle, back to the beginning of this Trip Report
I appreciate all of you allowing me to share my wedding day with you even though it wasn't a Disney Wedding!!!
Now as promised I will continue our Honeymoon Report (all our wishes and prayers were answered and the IT guys were able to retrieve all my pictures from our crashed computer...thank goodness).