is it too late to join?

[powellrj]

DH and I started a total life change 4 weeks ago and I was so excited until our first weigh-in on Sunday. DH had lost 22 pounds and I had only lost 8. I am so happy for him, but I am just crying on the inside. I had thought I would lose more than 8 pounds in the first month.

On the plus side, we both lowered our blood pressure by 22 points so that's a really good thing.

I guess I am just needing some encouragement from some others who are also trying to lose.

I see your wish signatures and am in awe at your results! Great job!

 

[VernRDH]

to WISH!! I know how frustrating it can be that your DH loses weight like nothing and you struggle for every pound. Good for you on lowering your BP-that is great!!!

8 pounds lost is nothing to sneeze at-especially for one month. There is no time limit on how long it takes to lose the weight-the important thing is that you are making positive changes every day.

Make small goals for yourself and take small steps. If you look at the "big" numbers, it can seem overwhelming. Even a small loss is a loss, and its better than a gain.

Good luck to you and keep up the good work!!! You will reach your goals!!!

 

[ohMom]

to WISH!! it is NEVER EVER too late!! it's great to have you on my team!

it is frustrating to watch men lose weight faster, but an avg of 2 lbs lost per week is PERFECT and HEALTHY!! I say cyber high five to you -- and that is 8 lbs gone forever!!! if you repeat that in two months you'll have 16 lbs gone forever!!!

i know you'll find the encouragement you seek here there is a journaling sub-forum if that interests you, there are always 'friendly' monthly challenges going on too...feel free to jump in and join!!

 

[Tiger Lily 03]

Congratulations to you and DH for trying to become healthier!

Great job on the weight loss. Please try not to compare your loss to that of your DH's. The guys always seem to lose faster. Don't let that discourage you. You have done very well.

Join in anywhere or even start up a challenge.

You can do this! Come often, post lots!

Welcome to WISH!