I am always amazed at the anger that is directed at women by women. No matter the family dynamic, if a man (or woman) wants a relationship with his family, he should have it, and if he chooses to opt out, that is on him. If these two want to "step away" from the royal family and their duties, or whatever it is they do, and are trying to set a set of "rules" that benefits them, fine. If those terms backfire, as they seem to have done somewhat, perhaps they should have done a better job of testing the family water. It is still my contention that placing blame on Meghan is silly. She is not leading her husband around by the throat, and if she is, well shame on him. I really hoped that the outdated notion that men do whatever their wives tell them to do was over.
I remember when Diana first married. She was so young and so in love, and so mesmerized by the fantasy she thought she was going to be part of. The disaster that ensued was very public, and since then times have changed. Harry grew up within the confines of the royal family and knew what that meant in terms of responsibility and public behavior. I am pretty darn sure he shared that with Meghan. if she was even a tad confused a simple google search would reveal what she was getting into. I am also pretty sure that both of these two honestly thought that people would view a married couple in the same light and delight as they did the romance of an American woman marrying her Prince Charming. Nope. That bloom wilts pretty fast. IMO both of these people need to grow up and adult.